The Tillmans and
the Mannings: A Contrast of Styles
By Cyd
Zeigler jr.
Just minutes after
Pat Tillman earned a few shed tears at the annual NFL Draft at Madison
Square Garden Saturday morning, Eli Manning was met with a
well-deserved chorus of boos.
In fact, Manning, who
had said he did not want to play for the San Diego Chargers, was booed
several times throughout the morning, as the top rookie prospects
lined up on stage and as he was selected by the Chargers with the
first pick overall in the draft.
Most guys dream of
being the first pick in the draft. Not Manning. He and his Daddy
wanted what they wanted from Saturday morning and would stomp their
feet until they got it.
You’d have thought he
was just told his brother was killed in Afghanistan, the way he moped
as he trudged up to the stage and accepted the Chargers jersey he was
given. Watching how he struggled to even touch the jersey, you’d have
thought he was holding the flag that was draped over his dead
brother’s coffin.
Eli and his father,
former standout quarterback Archie Manning, treated the NFL Draft
like Pop Warner football: Dad trying to manipulate coaches and staff
so his son ends up where he wants to end up and little Eli’s bratty
expression as he heard his name called “with the first selection in
the 2004 NFL draft.”
I was just waiting
for Eli to stomp his foot, turn to Daddy and proclaim, “it’s not fair.
It’s just not fair.”
It seems Archie
Manning thinks his is the first family of the NFL. The Camelot of pro
football. He’s Joe Kennedy and his sons are John and Joe, Jr. He’s
been meddling in Mississippi’s football program for at least the last
year. You’d have thought he was on the Ole Miss athletic department
staff last spring when he was instructing them how he wanted them to
handle the promotion of his son for the Heisman.
Ultimately, an ESPN
story said, “the family has agreed to come up with a strategy.” Like
they had a say in it anyway.
By the grace of God,
Eli didn’t win it.
The Draft was kicked
off, minutes before Eli’s spoiled little puss graced our television
screens, with a fitting contrast to the childlike antics of football’s
self-proclaimed first family.
For the last two
years, sports fans have at times scratched their heads about the
departure from the NFL of safety Pat Tillman. In 2002, Tillman left
the Arizona Cardinals, where he made All Pro, to join the U.S.
military and serve his country.
While he was in the
NFL, he gave it his all for a team that hadn’t won more games than it
lost in the last three years he played. His team was the doormat of
the NFL; yet, Tillman played on.
On Friday, 24 hours
before Eli was named the first pick in the NFL draft – before he was
anointed the toast of his class of rookies – Tillman was killed in
Afghanistan. Just two years removed from his tour of duty in war-torn
Sun Devil Stadium, he made what is referred to as “the ultimate
sacrifice” for love of his country.
Later that evening, I
was at a draft party thrown by Sirius radio, who will be broadcasting
all of the NFL’s games this season. Archie Manning was there, and he
spoke for five minutes. Five minutes about Eli, then Peyton, then
himself, then Peyton again, then more Peyton, then Eli, then more
Peyton then himself then Eli again.
When Tillman's family
is interviewed, they talk about how much Pat loved his country. They
talk about how hard he played. They talk about his dedication to his
family. They don't talk about themselves.
Tillman never gave an
interview about his decision to leave the millions of dollars the NFL
offered. He never accepted the attention. He felt he was a soldier,
just like everyone else.
Unfortunately,
despite the fact that they are just soldiers like every other
linebacker, wide receiver and tight end, the Mannings anoint
themselves the privileged class.
Sports need a lot
more Tillmans and a lot fewer Mannings.
April 26, 2004 |