Thanks to a reader for this head's-up of an entertaining call on a Podcast (Episode 136) by Dan Savage ("Savage Love").
The caller: A self-described totally out high school swimmer and water polo player in California. His whole team knows he's gay and has no problem with it.
The problem: He has no boyfriend and his hormones are raging as he's surrounded by all these "shirtless, ripped high school boys." One in particular is 6-6 and a very fast swimmer. He also playfully teases the gay swimmer by slapping the gay guy's bare chest or his thigh and affecting the "air of a cocky, aggressive d----bag."
All of which turns on the gay swimmer as it feeds into what he realizes is his sexually submissive side. He like being around this guy and would happily follow him like a "semi-abused puppy."
"Is this as incredibly unhealthy as it seems?" he asks Savage. The segment is worth listening to and I agree with Savage's conclusion. Do you?
Click here to access the Podcast page and look for Episode 136. Wait a few seconds and you can easily fast-forward to the 32-minute mark, which is when the call begins.