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Come Out and Play Ball!
The distracting steroid
scandal presents a golden opportunity for a gay baseball player to
come out of the closet
By Steve Charing
Courtesy of
Baltimore
OUTLoud
The greening of the grass and the budding on the trees, the
talkative birds and the emergence of hibernating daffodils all
signal the start of new baseball season. But the run-up to the first
pitch ceremonies has been dominated by the revelations that major
leaguers in uncertain numbers have used steroids.
The
House Committee on Government Oversight did their thing with a
theatrical hearing, which gave the appearance that if baseball
doesn’t fix the steroid problem, Congress would act. Following the
testimonies by the current and former players, as well as
representatives of Major League Baseball and the Players
Association, it is assured that the cloud of steroids is going to
hover over the baseball season that is about to launch.
With all the distraction of the steroids problem, it would seem that
now may be the right time for one of the gay major leaguers to come
out of the closet and, well, be a man. You ask why add more
controversy to a season that will be remembered more for finger
pointing and suspicion than any home run chase? Why upset the
nation’s fans who are already disappointed in their heroes?
The answer is simple — being gay, being true to yourself, and being
up front about it is in no way comparable to players who cheated
using illegal substances to achieve individual records and then had
become the beneficiaries of more lucrative contracts.
By contrasting the self-outing of a gay ballplayer with one who has
been found to have used anabolic steroids, the outcome for the gay
player in terms of acceptance appears to have a reasonable chance
for success. Which is worse, a baseball player sleeping with another
man when he goes home at night following a game or one who injects
another’s butt with an illegal, banished and dangerous substance
that artificially gives a player an advantage over the "play-by-the
rules types"? Will the gay player "steal" the home run title simply
for being gay? No. (But it would be nice, though.)
Let’s be clear about it; there are gay players in the major leagues.
Mark McGwire basically said as much during his sobbing testimony
when he proudly proclaimed his own indifference to "sexual
preference." Why would he make such a remark unless he knows of
players whose sexual "preference" needs to be, um, ignored
Set aside for a moment the controversial political discourse
surrounding same-sex marriage, red states, blue states, religious
extremists, etc. A professional athlete who openly admits he’s gay
would send a colossal message to the denizens of the U.S. that it is
okay to be gay and that he can perform in his job effectively. It
would also set the stage for other athletes to do likewise.
As I’ve opined before, it would take Jackie Robinson-like courage to
make such a move — as it was Robinson who broke the barrier of
baseball’s institutional racism in 1947. Robinson specifically had
the make-up in his heart and soul, not to mention guts, to withstand
the threats and the taunts of teammates, opponents and fans all
over. He not only endured, he became a Hall of Famer.
No other male professional athlete has come out of the closet while
he is actively playing. A couple of former baseball and football
players have come out once they retired. Billy Bean (pictured) was
the most recent baseball player who came out after his playing days
ended. He remains a gay activist.
Baseball is ripe for it; it’s essentially a non-contact sport that
focuses more on individual skills than teamwork. One can be gay and
play shortstop while his homophobic left fielder can only look in on
him with wonder between pitches. And hyped-up fears of sexual
assaults in the locker room and showers are pure nonsense, and most
everyone knows that. Athletes aren’t that stupid.
Still, each baseball club undoubtedly has a John Rocker-type
homophobe or three in its midst. That’s a problem that needs to be
addressed by the team’s management and the other teammates. Cities
such as Philadelphia and Toronto have already held "Gay Community
Nights" at their ballparks, which is an excellent signal that they
are interested in marketing and attracting gay and lesbian fans.
Don’t expect similar events in the homophobic NBA though.
I
used to believe that the risk of losing prospective endorsements
would be a major impediment to a gay player’s coming out. I think
differently now. Not that many players actually have major
endorsement deals. Locally, we see the ubiquitous Cal Ripken
pitching everything in sight. Of course, Rafael Palmiero (one of
those accused of using steroids in the infamous Jose Canseco
tell-all), had a national Viagra deal going. I believe he would have
stood a greater chance of losing his endorsement contract if it came
out that he used steroids than if he came out as gay. (That is not
meant to imply he is gay; it is merely to demonstrate the point that
certain advertisers would be more sensitive to drug abuse than
sexual orientation — especially if the sponsor is Viagra.)
Most other ballplayers don’t have local endorsements in tow. Has
anyone seen the telegenic Javy Lopez in many commercials? Or Larry
Bigbie or Brian Roberts? Not hardly. Therefore, with such a low
percentage of baseball players with endorsement deals, a player’s
coming out of the closet would probably not affect his traditional
endorsement prospects since it would be unlikely he would have been
offered a deal even if he remained in the closet. Conversely, many
gay-friendly companies like Ikea, Pier 1, or Southwest Airlines
would literally jump at the chance to have an openly gay player push
their products or services.
The main challenge would be dealing with the media and fans. Someone
who is tough enough to withstand the taunting and threats would be
the ideal candidate. It would also require someone who would have to
be, at some level, at peace with himself that coming out would
actually be a good thing for him. If he weren’t a star player to
begin with — an icon — perhaps this revelation would cause people to
look up at him. Clearly, this would be a big leap — for the player
and for the sport. While it is true that many Americans have
problems with gays and lesbians, relatively few lack awareness
thanks to the emergence of gay characters in our culture and other
sources of information. It would not appear as alien as it might
have in years past.
The time is right for a ballplayer to come out of the dugout and
declare his true self to one and all. The pain baseball is
experiencing because of the steroid scandal is far more acute than a
player revealing a heretofore hidden part of his persona. The focus
will not be on him because the steroids issue is a far greater
threat to the game.
Come out and play ball!
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