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Finally, please spare me the \"gay shame\" pop-psychology psychobabble. Unlike most folks on this board, I've been out - that's \"openly gay\" for those who need it spelled out in the latest language approved by the GLBTQ thought police - here and in the belly of the beast of the GOP from day one, fighting not to \"hurt [\"awww!\"] and silence other gay people,\" but for REAL respect, tolerance and acceptance for us and our causes. Just because I do so by means other than making a fool of myself hardly makes me \"fighting for the fundamentalists.\" And that, I believe, is the biggest problem you and the rest of the gay left have with folks like me and LCR; we share the same goals, but reject and recoil from your presumed leadership in the fight. Unable to accept that others might have better ideas on how to do things, you're left crying mightily. That's your right too, however immature it may be, but don't fault us for having grown up and away from you.
Well, if you've been out for a long time, and studied any of the history of the gay rights movement, you would know that there has never been a monolithic leadership of the movement - there has always been a tension between the "conservative" and "liberal" wings. Whether it was the early Mattachine members who voted to expel all the former Communists from the organization, to the "Gay Libbers" in the 70s who rejected the assimilasionist arguments and deferential attitudes of the early gay rights pioneers, to the ACTUP movement of the 80s and 90s, to today, when many gay people believe we have gone "too far" with the gay marriage arguments. As you may know from my previous postings, I was not a fan of the LCR under its previous leadership. But I believe Patrick Guerriero has brought new life and blood to the organization, and has finally made it a force to be reckoned with as the years go on.
I also happen to believe that the tension between liberal and conservative voices in this country, if moderated by those in the middle, can be a force for good, whether we are talking about taxation or gay rights legislation. What will always hurt this country, and any movement within it, is the belief that only one side has all the answers and the methods to achieve success. That is the main problem with our current administration, and the main criticism I have of your post.