Please forgive me dredging up this thread, but I feel I need to deliver on a promise of pointing out the
other term that I was afraid may be offensive, and yet, was never even mentioned and/or discovered in this topic, which became somewhat heated.
Ironically, it was in the same post where the Buckwheat reference started an unintended discussion about past characters in the media that can be viewed as offensive.
QUOTE(Tennis Guy @ Apr 14 2009, 09:25 AM)

I guess today certainly answers that question as 89th ranked Beck took out the woefully floundering Simon in straight sets.

What's up with Malcolm In The Middle, anyway??
And Bono took out Buckwheat, also embarrassingly easily in straight sets.
With Mathieu losing in three to Nalbandian, today proved to be a pretty bad day pour
Les Grenouilles, n'est-ce pas?
While it may not be obvious, because it was in French, "grenouille" is the French word for "frog." In my grandfather's, or great-grandfather's day, calling a french or a french-canadian person a frog would have started a fist fight. Whether you said it in English or French, it was an insult. Over the years, though, it lost its venom, and in fact, to the point where a lot of french-canadian groups have adopted it into the naming of their organizations, like the "FAROG (Franco-American Resource Opportunity Group) FORUM", etc... Now if you call people in their 20's or 30's a frog, they probably wouldn't even know, or think for that matter, that they're being ethnically insulted. And trust me...just like there may be offensive "dumb (insert nationality of choice) jokes" in other parts of the country, in many parts of New England, it was "dumb Frenchman" and "how many Frenchmen does it take...." jokes. (You'll see references to these in Stephen King books and movies, that often take place in Maine, and other northern New England areas)
I should know all this, because I'm French-Canadian, with some Celtic blood on my mom's side.
The word "frog" means nothing to me, other than the little green amphibian. While I have my opinions on how some groups have let offensive words like this slide off their respective backs over the generations, and other have not, I'll have to stop my Hingisitis at this point, as it is not likely to go anywhere constructive. I will say this, though...while other groups will use offensive words and "claim them as their own" the HUGE difference is that with "Frog," french-canadians don't mind if anyone else uses the term, even when an outsider points it at them. Enough on that.
Two-Hander...you and I are entitled to one argument or slight disagreement a year. That seems to be common for us, and I actually like the fact that we see eye to eye so often. I think my vocal stance on Hewitt's and Hingis's past respective racial and homophobic comments, and my extreme disdain for what happened to Shahar Peer in Dubai speak volumes about me. I really don't think I need to prove myself in any PC arena, I am secure in myself that way, and am quite sure my posting history will speak for itself.
When I said I believed some things people posted here were bordering on "crossing the line," Two-Hander, forgive me, it was when you said "white privilege" when people were qualifying that they meant no harm in using Buckwheat merely as a point of physical resemblance, and nothing else. I felt that was inappropriate. And while I certainly DO NOT feel this way, that would have been tantamount, IMO, to someone saying that blacks hold on to these references and merely feign offense to perpetuate "white guilt." I find BOTH of these ideologies, and their use ("white privilege" and "white guilt"), are crossing the line.
I'm not going to apologize for my explanation for using Buckwheat to make fun of Monfils's hair, I meant nothing offensive by it, other than trying to be funny, using a popular mechanism on this board...our love of comparing tennis players to celebrity and/or other cartoon-type characters. I will still call Tipsaravic "Bono" and Ancic "the Karate Kid" and Simon "Malcolm in the Middle" and will still laugh when others call Murray "Napolean Dynamite."
I still stand by my "if you read more into it, that's your problem" stance. After thinking about it more, I can see how people might see "how dare you be offended by it?" buried within it. And for that, and lacking the sensitivity around the Buckwheat character, I DO apologize.
I'm sorry.