QUOTE(mdterp01 @ Jun 10 2009, 12:48 AM)

Actually I thought it was moreso that Nadal is hard and Federer is soft.....emotionally of course. I know that sometimes I can fight crying, but there are other times when I'm just so overwhelmed that I can't help it.
Definitely we see it through our fave-colored glasses, but I saw Rafa as the soft guy in that situation -- he comforted Federer for god's sake. I can't see that happening the other way around. Nadal has cried quite a bit, he just has tended to do it in private (Wimbledon 07 most obviously).
As for the injury issue, we're talking about it because there's a thread about it (you answered your question before you posed it WWCD), and because Toni Nadal never shuts his big yap. (Terp, I agree Toni's blabbering lacked tact to Soderling and Federer, though Federer has caught right back up in the tactlessness dept. in his post-French interviews.) There have been leaks about knee problems since Miami and/or his first round win at the French. (They just weren't given credence back then -- people said, oh sure, he'll win RG.)
On another board posters have been taking an official statement from Nadal today and running rampant with the assumption that Nadal is playing Wimbledon. It makes me wonder if people know how to read anymore. I saw nothing in Nadal's official statement today that makes me think he definitely will play this year's tournament.
All the "suspense" about Nadal's injury is as bad for (and from) him as it is good for the hypemasters. It's a mistake on his part that it's even being discussed unless he is pulling out of the tournament. It's going to be an interesting next year or two for Rafael. He reached #1, which largely was unexpected. Ditto winning a hard court major. But now he's finding out how hard it is to keep #1, something he didn't have illusions about when he got the ranking, but might be upset about now. I never thought Federer was truly going down for good, and never thought that Nadal would be dominant on anywhere near Federer's level (for a number of reasons), so I'm not shocked by the current situation, though it is a cold splash to put it mildly if you're a fan.
What remains to be seen with Rafael is how he will grow up. There are rumors his parents are getting a divorce. (When it rains it pours.) There is going to come a time when it would be smart on his part to not allow his uncle to mouth off so much. On the women's side we see Sharapova distancing herself from the far more annoying and now AWOL Yuri, who never contributed much to Maria's game. Toni is a bit of a genius in addition to annoying, so it would be foolish for Rafael to break from him, but he does need to be become his own man more than currently.
QUOTE(WhatWouldChrissieDo @ Jun 10 2009, 12:52 AM)

Fed's behavior at the Aussie Open was anything but diva-ish. He cried and even though they gave him a moment to pull himself together, he made sure he spoke before Rafa so that Rafa would have the last word. Voicemail, you're clearly anti-Fed and are just looking for reasons to dis him. As someone else on this board pointed out, all the other players (and seemingly everyone involved with the sport) clearly appreciate and respect him. If he was a diva, you know that wouldn't be the case.
There are hordes of people who would disagree with you WWCD. Maybe you should catch up with your reading here, for a start. In fact, your description is wrong. Federer would not have spoken if Nadal hadn't reached out to him.
But really, this thread is getting catty, and the AO thing isn't the title subject. WWCD, I agree that VM on the warpath, but as for the players looking up to and respecting Federer, as Denise Richards says, it's complicated. He has made this work to his advantage. Of course multilingual gentleman Rog who kills you with kindness is going to be preferred to brutish Nadal who goes in like a boxer. The ATP isn't exactly full of rocket scientists, and many of them don't realize how Federer plays them like a fiddle.