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Filling in the Blanks
San
Francisco Gay Sports Exhibit
a Must-See
By
Gene Dermody
Special to Outsports.com
"Sporting
Life: GLBT Athletics and Cultural Change from the 1960s to Today"
brings together the works of more than 34 photographers, 49
collections, and 28 athletic groups. Guest-curated and designed by
syndicated sports writer and author Jim Provenzano, "Sporting Life"
explores how San Francisco Bay Area GLBT sports have challenged
homophobia and created community. From early 1970s gay softball
games versus the police to the launch of the now-worldwide Gay
Games, the way we play has transformed society. Today, more than
4,000 openly GLBT Bay Area athletes participate annually, breaking
records and defying stereotypes. "Sporting Life" can be seen daily
Tuesday through Saturday 1-5 p.m at The GLBT Historical Society, 657
Mission St. San Francisco, through 2005.
The Missing
Color
Like the
Gnostic gospels, "Sporting Life" is the missing (if not heretical)
chapter in San Francisco's colorful gay history. Instead of yet
another victim chronology of homophobia or another tired expose of
stereotypes and fetishes, the exhibit celebrates the ‘other life’ of
those San Franciscans who shaped an era, their “Sporting Life”.
The exhibit
adds new dimension to the profile of those San Francisco
revolutionaries: those idealists who stood in Market St. traffic on
election day with big "Vote Harvey Milk" signs, those early Twin
Peaks ‘guppies’ (gay yuppies) who transformed the Castro into the
real "Tales of the City," and those devastated citizens who for the
first time in their lives ‘lost it’ in the White Night Riot. Who
knew that such a vast number of them were also so happily engaged in
such subversive activities as bowling, softball, and basketball as
early as the ‘60s?

A bust of Gay
Games founder Tom Waddell made in 1987; a case of personal items
includes two discuses which Waddell used in the 1968 Olympics.
Heritage
Complete
It is
Provenzano’s devotion to detail, a careful showcasing of a
remarkable collection of pride and joy, that finally lays waste the
myth of hopeless sissies and proves that there were always ‘athletes
in our midst.’ It is academic that there were always some athletes
who were gay, or that the locker room was never all that
heterosexual.
However, it is
the emotional impact of actually seeing the physical evidence, the
personal sports memorabilia of our community so proudly displayed,
which will connect with a much wider audience and secure this
exhibit’s place in GLBT history.
A few years
ago I had a similar experience when my father died. In going
through his personal belongings, I discovered a man I wish I had
known better. The impact of seeing his high school medals, his
basketball shirts vs. skins buddy pictures, and his WWII Navy dog
tags transformed my fuzzy black and white image of him and kindled a
kind of hero worship I had always reserved for others. He obviously
valued these objects enough to keep them so carefully preserved for
half a century. If only he had shared them with me when I was
younger, our relationship would have been different. There is great
power inherent in these symbols of our achievements.
Similarly,
this exhibit is a treasure, a legacy to our community that documents
the pride, tradition, and connection we all must cherish as “our”
family tree.
Mixing It Up
On entering the exhibit, the almost
obligatory homage to the elite gay athletes who pioneered and
suffered for the “cause” seems at first to overwhelm. There is the
black and white photo of my absolute favorite, Dave Kopay, doing
those rapid “foot-fire” drills in full gear. It was his
groundbreaking book that gave me strength way back in the ‘70s when
I was a nervous 140-pound rookie high school wrestling coach. If he
could do it with those giants in pro football, I could surely handle
a few dozen high school toughs. The challenge to excel in spite of
the stereotype was also my inspiration and motivation. There are
photos and items of Jerry Smith, Rudy Galindo, Greg Louganis, Billy
Bean, and the tragic Glenn Burke. All are
important representatives of our elite sports heritage.
When these elite images are juxtaposed
with the images of recreational athletes, the message of the exhibit
becomes clearer and more provoking. It is precisely the spectacular
diversity of sports, skill levels, body types, and athletic
achievements that catches your eye and teases your testosterone
laced mind.
By randomly mixing the images of “guys
who throw like girls” with “guys who were Olympians”, the common
humanity shines proudly and validates our community’s rich and
diverse athletic heritage. Instead of a few freaks at both ends of
the athletic spectrum, there is a huge middle ground. How
refreshingly normal!
Glenn Burke
“One of the more evocative items is a
rare 1979 Glenn Burke Oakland Athletics baseball card. Burke,
credited with inventing the "high five," had been traded to the A's
from the Dodgers, largely due to homophobia. Ongoing antigay
hostility and a knee injury led him soon after to leave professional
baseball. Afterwards, he became a celebrated member of San Francisco
gay softball teams. In 1982, he became the first pro baseball player
to come out.” (--San Francisco Chronicle).
I already knew Glenn was a local, a
Berkeley High School super star athlete who excelled in basketball,
football, and baseball. He could have made it in any professional
sport he wanted, not just baseball. I vividly remember his
performances in Gay Games, where his softball team took the Silver,
and his basketball team took the Gold. His sheer athleticism
bordered on the artistic. His team spirit was legendary, especially
amongst those who ever saw him play basketball!
I stared at that Oakland A’s baseball
card for a while, remembering seeing him so many times so many years
ago at the Eureka Valley Recreation Center Gym (soon to be renamed
the Mark Bingham Memorial Gym). The classic “batter-up” black and
white photo was particularly striking, that cute face with the
winning smile. I wondered why there was so little of his
memorabilia. There were no signed pictures, no A’s cap, and not
even his glove. It seemed incongruous that such an outstanding
example of what the exhibit was about was given such short shrift.
But a Google search also turned up
little. Sheepishly, I wondered if we just took him for granted or
if he was just way ahead of the times. Is it because he dared to
come down from Olympus to play with us mere mortals that his
achievements were somehow diminished? Did he ever get one of those
ubiquitous political proclamations from the Mayor? Does Berkeley
High School even acknowledge him? There is no doubt in my mind “Gay
Sports” achieved proper “athletic” recognition when Glenn Burke
turned heads at the first Gay Games.

This case
includes items from the SF Fog rugby team, Jerry Smith NFL cards,
and a 49ers team-signed helmet loaned by former trainer Lindsy
McLean.
My Heroes
As I make my way past the GLBT Sports
Timelin in the entrance way, I am flattered by a sizeable photo of
my 1982 Gay Games wrestling match with Peter Gomez in the same flow
as another South Bay Latino athlete, Rudy Galindo. Peter was a
brawler with a missing front tooth to prove it. He had a rough life
on the streets of San Francisco and wrestling was his personal
revenge on privileged Anglo guppies like me who thought we were
tough.
Peter Gomez 1982
On the opposite wall is a photo finish of
perennial flash Earl Bryant with flared nostrils and puffed cheeks
racing like a thoroughbred across the finish line. Then there is
the rest of the pantheon of track stars: Carmen Morrison, Rick
Thoman, Bernard Turner, Nancy Frost, Norma Jean Lopez, and Frank
Demby who set Gay Games standards for almost a decade. San
Francisco Track & Field was one of the earlier stalwart Team San
Francisco teams that became the model for camaraderie and spirit.
Rick Thoman deserves kudos for long managing that star-studded team
as well as competing as an elite level himself.
Also on the wall opposite the Timeline
adjacent the Track & Field is a rather large unremarkable black &
white photo of a soccer player leading some guys in a warm-up. His
back is to us but there is no mistaking the “soccer legs” of Josh
Persky. I fondly remember Josh from the late '80s from the Muscle
System where we both trained. He was both a fireplug and a
sparkplug, one of the original founders of the San Francisco Spikes,
and a real sweetheart of a guy. Together with Carlo Togni, the
Spikes were the creators and always the class act of Gay Soccer.
Josh Persky 1986
In between Earl Bryant and Josh Persky
another enlarged black and white photo shows Tom Waddell and San
Francisco supervisor/state assemblyman Mark Leno at a an early ‘80s
‘Gay Run’. Today Mark is using his athletic skills twisting arms in
Sacramento for a Gay Marriage bill. Watch out, Arnie!

Part of the Martial
Arts, Boxing, Judo, and Wrestling display.
Across the room is the rainbow belts
display of the International Association of Gay & Lesbian Martial
Artists (IAGLMA), which gives new meaning to the perception of
“Black & Blue” belts. In a tournament photo, Allen Wood stands out
head and shoulders tall in his crisp white gi. He is the
model warrior, a new age Siegfried slaying the dragons of
stereotype. Allen worked many years for Team San Francisco, IAGLMA,
and the Federation of Gay Games, especially in the area of drug
testing policy. Allen is the only doctor to ever successfully
relieve the pinched nerve in my back.
In the corner between Martial Arts and
Wrestling is Basketball, and the photo that catches my eye has Tony
Jasinski, the “Godfather” of Gay Basketball coaching one of his many
championship teams. Tony and I go way back. We were part of the
Team San Francisco contingent that in 1987 “persuaded” San Francisco
Parks & Recreation to let the “fags” use the Eureka Valley
Recreation Center (EVC) in the Castro. Since that time, volleyball,
indoor soccer, basketball, wrestling, and martial arts have
flourished in that facility. We also both served on the EVC
Advisory Board which pushed having the gym renamed in Mark Bingham’s
honor after 9/11. Another basketball player in the picture was one
of the handsomest men to ever play basketball, Mike Gray. I would
sometimes watch him play from the wrestling room which overlooks the
gym.
In the opposite corner is Aquatics. San
Francisco is blessed with about three GLBT groups, only the
overcrowded pools keep them from growing even more. There is Duke
Dahlin’s English Channel Swim recognition, the Tsunami team photos,
and tons of medals.
My eye is drawn to a small photo with Rick
Windes in it. Rick was one of the early Tsunami and International
Gay & Lesbian Aquatics (IGLA) competitors who also found time to
coach and serve. Rick and I served together on Team San Francisco
for years. He was a big guy, a sweetheart, almost a “Yogi Bear”
before the term became chic fetish.
By chance I saw what had been donated to
the exhibition by Rick’s partner. I was literally blown away by the
sheer number of medals, recognitions, awards, not only from IGLA,
the Gay Games, and Tsunami, but from U.S. Masters Swimming and FINA.
The collection could be an exhibit in itself.
Here was a true athlete who took his
leadership responsibilities seriously. He made a great transition
from elite competitor, to coach, to leader. A year before he died,
he was at my home with IGLA’s Charlie Carson still planning and
writing policy for IGLA and the Gay Games. Rick’s legacy is the
success story of Team San Francisco, Tsunami, IGLA, and the Gay
Games.
Rick Windes 1990
Nestled between Martial Arts and
Basketball is Wrestling which I purposely left until last. In the
display case there are old singlets, T-shirts, photos, medals, and
posters. Some of it my own personal stuff. My history with Golden
Gate Wrestling (GGWC) goes back to Gay Games I, so I knew the
display would be an emotional one for me. The photos are dotted
with friends and lovers, including two of my partners whom are no
longer with us.
One single photo, peering at me from
behind those horned rimmed black glasses is the guy I will always
have to answer to, Don Jung. A California InterScholastic
Federation (CIF) high school state champ, a standout at Chabot
College, Don went on to be the coach of San Francisco’s Mission High
School (one of the city’s toughest schools), which is just four
blocks east of ground zero Castro & 18th. Streets.
Don was all this before the first
Gay Games while openly living in Oakland with his partner Ben
Olsen. Don had already earned the respect of the Bay Area wrestling
community when he drew the attention of Tom Waddell who charged him
with starting Golden Gate Wrestling.
Striken with AIDS, Don died a day after
his Gay Games II matches in 1986, probably a suicide given the
prognosis of the day. I had totally avoided all coaching and
organizing responsibilities for GGWC since leaving New Jersey and
high school coaching. Gay Games had blown me out of the closet with
a vengeance. Selfishly, I wanted the competition and recognition,
and knew I would have to sacrifice that quest if I had to coach.
But during those last inevitable days Don
charged me with continuing GGWC in the tradition he had
established. At the time I grudgingly accepted. It took years, but
I learned that there was a more enduring satisfaction in serving
others. Instead of my five individual Gay Games medals, I can count
dozens of GGWC medals. But more importantly I can count hundreds of
men and women for whom the GGWC experience made a difference.
Under my breath I ask the photo on the
wall, "How did we do, Don?” If you stare long enough at Don’s photo
(taken the day before he died), there is a smile under that
moustache that I had never noticed before.
Don Jung 1986
About the author
Gene
Dermody has coached and competed at every Gay Games, served
on the Board of Team San Francisco, served as President of the
Federation of Gay Games, served on the Board of the Bay Area Sports
Organizing Committee for the San Francisco 2012 Olympic Bid, and
numerous other organizations.
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