In Beijing Olympics, only 10 openly gay athletes Print E-mail

Number of gay and lesbian athletes at the 2008 Games is on par with 2004 but includes only one man. In addition, there is one bisexual softball player.

 

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Of the 10,708 athletes who will march into Beijing’s Bird’s Nest Olympic stadium on Friday, Outsports is aware of only 10 who are publicly gay, on par with the 2004 Games. There is also a bisexual American softball player.

Of the 10 publicly gay Olympians this year, only one is a man: Matthew Mitcham (Australia, diving). Mitcham stunned the diving world by winning the gold medal Aug. 23 in the 10-meter platform. (See the complete rundown on how gay athletes fared this year).

The out lesbians are: Judith Arndt (Germany, cycling), Imke Duplitzer (Germany, fencing), Gro Hammerseng and Katja Nyberg (Norway, handball and a lesbian couple), Natasha Kai (U.S., soccer), Lauren Lappin (U.S., softball); Victoria "Vickan" Svensson (Sweden, soccer); Rennae Stubbs (Australia, tennis) and Linda Bresonik (Germany, soccer).

This original article mentioned five out athletes until a reader alerted us about Kai, who told NBC about her "nasty break-up with my girlfriend." And a huge tip of the hat to Malinda Lo of AfterEllen.com, who compiled the list of nine lesbian and one bisexual athletes, four of who were not in this original article.

Another reader also alerted us to U.S. softball player Vicky Galindo, a bisexual profiled in the Advocate magazine. Galindo was among Olympic athletes who signed an open letter urging a truce in Sudan's Darfur region during the Games.


Matthew Mitcham will be followed closely by the Outsports Olympics 2008 blog

 

 




 

Norwegian handball players Gro Hammerseng, left, and Katja Nyberg are a couple.
In contrast, there were 11 openly gay athletes in Athens in 2004 (two more, basketball star Sheryl Swoopes and Australian gymnast Ji Wallace, came out publicly afterwards) and seven at the Sydney Games in 2000.

The number for Beijing comes with a huge caveat and must be seen in context. There is no doubt there are many more gays and lesbians competing in Beijing, but these 10 are the only ones we can determine to be “publicly out,” having discussed their sexuality openly in some manner. For all we know, there is a gay rower or badminton player somewhere known as gay within his or her sport, but not in a larger public context. ( This e-mail address is being protected from spam bots, you need JavaScript enabled to view it if you know of an out athlete not on this list.)

Simple math illustrates the likely range of gay athletes in Beijing, using the 10,708 total participants. If 10% were gay, this would mean 1,070 athletes. Even the extremely low range of 1% would leave 107 gay athletes. Researchers such as Eric Anderson of the University of Bath in England (and a longtime Outsports contributor) say that the percentage of gays in sports mirrors the percentage in the entire population (estimated at between 2% and 10%).

But 10 is still a disappointment given the progress made by out gays and lesbians in sports the past decade. Some of the drop is the result of athletes like Swoopes and Wallace, both medalists in 2004, not on their nation’s Olympic team this year. In addition, two openly gay swimmers competed in the U.S. swimming trials, though neither qualified for the team. None of the three lesbian tennis players from 2004 (Amelie Mauresmo, Conchita Martinez and Martina Navratilova) are in Beijing. And none of the four equestrian athletes from 2004 is competing this year either due to injury or retirement (New Zealand’s Blyth Tait, an equestrian athlete in 2004, is in Beijing but as a team manager).

“Strangely, this year there are no out riders competing on any team,” equestrian star Robert Dover said in an e-mail to Outsports. Dover retired in 2005 after competing in six Olympics. “There is one rider who is married, but is having an affair with a guy, but so far he's not coming forward about it. Sad!”

Keeping a secret

The reasons athletes stay in the closet are varied, but revolve mainly around fear of the consequences of being out -- from the effects on performance, interaction with teammates, fans and the media, and, in some cases, endorsements. In addition, the vast majority of Olympic athletes are under 30, a time when even people who are not elite jocks are wrestling with their sexuality. Being an Olympic athlete requires full-time dedication and a lot of things get put on hold. It is just easier to hide and deal with one’s sexuality later.

Dover told the Associated Press prior to the Athens Games about why more gay athletes are not open. "You spend a day with these athletes, and it becomes obvious that gay people are everywhere," Dover said. "The reason many of them aren't out is because they're focused on their job during this time when sports is the No. 1 thing in their lives."

For example, Outsports is aware of a lesbian athlete who is not out, competing in her first Games. Someone who knows her well (and whose name I am omitting in order to not reveal her sport), told me: “She is religious and close to her mother. … She is also somewhat shy and fragile. This Beijing thing is going to be a major cultural shock. She came out of nowhere … and went from nothing to this. … But when she does come out, and she will, she will be an incredible role model.”

A lesbian team sport athlete, in her second Olympics, is also not out publicly, despite not being shy about going to gay bars (we are keeping her name secret since Outsports does not out anyone). A bouncer at a gay club in the South wrote Outsports about her during the 2004 Athens Games: She “came in several times along with most of the team. She never made a big deal about who she was or where she was going, and of course seeing female athletes in the bar was commonplace. She hooked up occasionally, and I watched her make out a few times.”

A 'gay sport'

In the case of men’s gymnastics, Brandon Triche, who was out on his team in college, said he knows of prominent former U.S. gymnasts who are gay but closeted, in some case having sham marriages. These athletes, Triche said, are likely to never come out.

One reason for the secrecy in gymnastics, Triche says, is that gay gymnasts do not want to feed the public perception that theirs is a “gay sport,” at a time when men’s programs are being cut at the collegiate level and the sport struggles for visibility. Triche disputes this perception.

“I think that those who keep their sexuality secret and act overly heterosexual hinder the sport,” Triche said. “My experience shows there are no more gay men competing in gymnastics than in any other sport. I was on my high school football team and there were many more homosexuals on that team than I ever met who were ever openly gay in gymnastics. I was out on my team and had a gay teammate. But there still has not been an Olympic gymnast that has come out.

“I think that for closeted elite gymnasts, not only are they scared to be a role model for gay youth, they are afraid that coming out will confirm the perception that they compete in a ‘gay sport.’ The misconceptions are so far from the truth. Gymnastics is one of the toughest, hardest and most gruelingly difficult sports in the world.”

In a classic Catch-22, the reluctance of gay athletes to come out will be tough to overcome until more like them come forward and prove that being a “gay athlete” is not an oxymoron or hindrance to success.

Outsports Olympics 2008 blog

Editor's note: This article has been updated from the original to include new names. No other information has been changed.

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Enigma - I don't get it   | 142.165.213.xxx | 2008-08-06 12:44:09
I just don't understand the fear of loss of sponsorship / endorsements. If anything, wouldn't the first openly gay athlete on a team sport get more endorsements - particularly from gay friendly companies?
Chris Reig - Mr.   | 60.231.25.xxx | 2008-08-07 07:28:05
I think that these openly gay/lesbian athletes are an inspiration to other gay and lesbian people, closeted or not, that just because we aren't heterosexual, doesn't mean we are any less capable.

As an Aussie, Michael Mitcham is definitely my inspiration. Plus he's dead sexy

That's my yarn.

Chris
Muffin - Ms   | 210.7.17.xxx | 2008-08-14 23:19:20
I agree with Chris on his comments..
Letting her live her dream - My partners a gay olympian   | 58.175.145.xxx | 2008-08-16 09:29:35
Yes she went to Beijing and yes, most of her team know that she is with me. I've met them. It took a long time for her to admit that she wasn't straight and even longer for her to talk to openly talk to people in her sport. I won't pressure her on the matter, she has enough to focus on and although it hurts me, not to be able to give her a kiss openly. I respect the decisions she makes. Its all new to her and I get that. I do know how her sponsor would react. She generally looks at it as, the people she cares about know and the people she doesn't - it doesn't matter. I guess its hard coming out sometimes and harder to come out twice, once as a person and the second time as a sportperson. Time will tell if she decides she is ready.
Anonymous   | 194.219.204.xxx | 2008-08-25 15:39:49
FBEVB
Kelly Stevens - We have more work     | 24.17.221.xxx | 2008-08-07 12:14:02
People that are out of the closet and enjoying a free and open life, often ask why there is still a need for Gay Games. This is article does a fantastic job of pointing out the need for Gay Sports visibility is still important.

The Gay Games has many public sports figures as Amabassdors for the Gay Games. A couple are going to to the 2008 Olympics, listed in the article.

We have much more work to do. We all need to respond to each homophobic act in sports, just as GLAAD did in media, and we will push sports to be more accepting of LGBT athletes.

Thank you Outsports!
joe marshall   | 64.12.117.xxx | 2008-08-07 13:07:42
money must be more important than being true to one's self ... gotta have that gucci i guess!
Regan   | 128.164.135.xxx | 2008-08-07 13:16:32
How about Vicky Galidno, bi second baseman of the USA softball team? She's profiled in the same issue of The Advocate, but didn't make the list. What gives?
Sy   | 24.121.215.xxx | 2008-08-24 11:37:29
Ok, I KNOW that I can't be the only person thinking this one: Can she hit from both sides of the plate? I had to learn to hit well left-handed so that I could answer in the affirmative.
Jim at Outsports   | 76.214.26.xxx | 2008-08-07 14:41:57
Did not know about Vicky and I updated the story. That's why we love reader submissions!
Jim
Dr. Mike   | 68.192.194.xxx | 2008-08-07 18:15:52
Out or not - one needs to multiply the number "6" by at least 100. Did anyone watch the men's diving trials from Indy...wow...I am so not about outing anyone...but. Then add equestrian (which I believe there are several "out" riders - men and women), men's gymnastics...there are a lot of "us" competing in the games - out or not.
Anonymous   | 70.108.52.xxx | 2008-08-09 16:58:03
Well I was at Atlanta, and I was open about my relationship (18 years then, 30 years now), and it was never an issue. That's why I love the Olympic movement: very supportive, whether out or not. Maybe it's just not an issue any more.
the freak - derek jeter     | 164.82.84.xxx | 2008-08-10 13:21:02
Is Derek Jeter really gay?
Nadine   | 91.58.249.xxx | 2008-08-11 07:58:10
If gay or not...this should not be the Reason for the People to support them. The most important Thing is what they are do at the Olympic Games. Im a Lesbian and I hope, more and more Athletes would say: I´m gay and I´m proud!
This could be a Think-Over by Millions of People!
I hope no One will be discriminated at all!
Henrik - You have missed some...   | 85.19.154.xxx | 2008-08-11 20:06:03
Tonje Larsen of the Norwegian women's handball team is openly gay, and there are several openly gays at the woman fotball team as well.
andris   | 213.175.95.xxx | 2008-08-12 05:12:39
Lesbian, lesbian, lesbian, lesbian, lesbian ...

I would love to hear more of GAY soccer and basketball players.
Marlin - re:     | 71.233.169.xxx | 2008-08-12 23:25:13
Anonymous wrote:
Wel
l I was at Atlanta, and I was open about my relationship (18 years then, 30 years now), and it was never an issue. That's why I love the Olympic movement: very supportive, whether out or not. Maybe it's just not an issue any more.

Is it possible for an anonymous comment to be more ironic?
C - Yep   | 58.175.145.xxx | 2008-08-16 09:13:35
I agree...lol
Ryan Lochte - WHY THE F-CK DOES ANYONE CARE?   | 98.223.185.xxx | 2008-08-13 20:57:39
Gay, bisexual, str8 - it's ALL good. Get over it people. This website sux and is obviously run by a bunch of old gay queens who have not moved beyond labels and hang-ups.
Anonymous - re: I don't get it   | 206.116.164.xxx | 2008-08-14 20:58:52
Nope. A man/woman has to uphold his/her Image as a Man/Woman, especially an olympian athlete.

Enigma wrote:
I just don't understand the fear of loss of sponsorship / endorsements. If anything, wouldn't the first openly gay athlete on a team sport get more endorsements - particularly from gay friendly companies?
RussianBoyAl - I'm gay and sportsman too   | 91.151.250.xxx | 2008-08-14 21:10:14

Matthew, you're VERY CUTE MAN! I wanna be like YOU!
Sally - Journalism or gossip column?   | 72.89.201.xxx | 2008-08-15 13:34:47
Jim and Cyd, I'm continually disappointed how often your editorial tone teeters between respectful journalism and "Page 6"-esque "blind items," as if the quote of a nameless bouncer at some "gay bar in the South" is the kind of source you should rely on. You make this site out to be much more gossip-columny than you need to, as if you need to compete with PerezHilton. What's even funnier is the way you drop hints and tell stories, while trying to maintain a tone that's above reproach, saying you "never out anyone." If you're not eager to tell people's stories before they're ready to tell them themselves, you should avoid such blind items. It makes you look kinda skeevy.
Jim Buzinski   | 76.214.0.xxx | 2008-08-15 15:12:25
I'm sorry Sally, but I disagree. The point of the article was to tell why people stay in the closet and to show there are many more gay and lesbian athletes than the 10 who have publicly announced.

We did not drop any clues as to who these anonymous people are, but it did give a sense that there are jocks who are not exactly in the closet but are not yet willing to tell their stories.

If we wanted to "gossip" we would do what Page 6 does and give enough clues w/o naming the person. We have never done this and never will.
Sardis Runner     | 70.78.96.xxx | 2008-08-15 17:11:04
Unfortunately, as long as people make a big deal over the issue of one's private life, individuals will still be penalized for their orientation. And this will continue to occur until we all have the right to live our lives with a same-sex partner, if we so choose. Such Human Rights and laws exist in some places but not others. When such laws are in place, these issues become irrelevant over time. Until we all share these rights, until we have safe and risk-free events for GLBT individuals, the least of us will continue to suffer. Kelly is quite right - we still have work to do. And when the need for GLBT sports events, such as the Outgames and Gay Games, is no longer, our work will be done.
R. Meijer   | 62.163.92.xxx | 2008-08-18 12:28:04
One of the players of the Dutch female hockey team is married to a same-sex partner
Kelly - You need to brush up on your r   | 193.120.116.xxx | 2008-08-18 13:36:00
I think you will find that you are missing quite a substantial amount of athletes from your list. Afterellen.com are way ahead im afraid.
And one last thing, why does it matter who is gay/bi/straight? They are there doing the sport they love, and have earned their position from countless hours of hard work and dedication. They dont want to be known as "that gay athlete"! They are there to be known as a talented sportsman/woman.
Antonia Trenton - Back off!!!   | 86.139.31.xxx | 2008-08-19 04:05:28
Who cares whether someone is gay straight or bi! Who cares what someone's sexual preference is! The Olympics is a world class event and should be treated as such. Sportsmen and women are not there to be disrespected or, if they are gay, to get a message across to the rest of the world. They are there for one reason only. To do the best they can for their country. They're selected because THEY ARE THE BEST!! They are not there so people with nothing better to do, can sit and gossip about them. What Olympians do in their own private life has nothing to do with anyone else. What they do away from the cameras, away from the glare of the public, is their own private business. This means, it is not up for discussion. They might be world class atheletes but they are still human beings. They have the right to live their lives the way they want just as everyone else around the globe does. So all you patheic sado's out there with no life, get one!! That way you may find there are a lot more things in the world to "gossip" about!!!!!
Roee - You must update your list!   | 128.139.226.xxx | 2008-08-19 06:01:29
Anothr one you missed is Israeli tenis player Tzipi Obziler, who is openly lesbian. She came out last year in an interview in Maariv newspaper here, she lives with her partner, Hadas, and they just had a baby together a few months ago.
beer sheva - zipi obsiler from israel she i   | 77.126.118.xxx | 2008-08-19 06:54:52
Zipi Obsiler from israel she is an open lesbian and a very good tenis player.
She is the oldest player at the WTA.
Dixy   | 124.168.221.xxx | 2008-08-19 07:05:10
A few members of the Australian women's basketball team are openly gay.
Jim Buzinski   | 76.214.0.xxx | 2008-08-19 13:58:37
Hi: Really appreciate all the feedback but have one point to stress: My list deals with "publicly gay" athletes. In short, can you do an Internet search and find a reference to their sexuality? I could add many names of athletes known to be gay, but these people are not yet totally public (though they live with a partner and all their friends know).

So, if you say a few members of the Aussie women's basketball team are gay, we need some reference to them saying this somewhere. One can be out of the closet in their private life but not yet willing to go 100% public with it. This is why the list deals only with "publicly out" jocks.

Thanks!
sdelfino - re:   | 71.233.78.xxx | 2008-08-24 15:36:21
Jim Buzinski wrote:
My list deals with "publicly gay" athletes. In short, can you do an Internet search and find a reference to their sexuality?
Thanks!


In your eyes, to be out means to tell a major newspaper or blog about it. It's not enough just to be open about being gay. I'm sure there are lesser known athletes in lesser known sports that are out, but you discount them because they don't get media coverage.
Kevin   | 72.1.195.xxx | 2008-08-20 14:12:29
Why is it that only one guy is "out", I am sure there are more, and there are all these chicks that are "out"? Are they guys chicken shit or is it just that the perception of dudes in sports don't suck dick??? Things that make you go hmmmmm...
SHERWIN BAKLA SALVALOSA   | 208.57.63.xxx | 2008-08-22 03:32:42
I HAS A GAY BASKETBALL PLAYER WISH BIG NAME WOULD OUT THEM SELF!
Aussie   | 124.176.41.xxx | 2008-08-23 02:13:30
"A few members of the Australian women's basketball team are openly gay."

No members of the Australian women's basketball team are openly gay! And the 'we understand she is gay' list is very, very small (can't remember there being so few).
David - We need an openly gay NFL play   | 69.180.219.xxx | 2008-08-23 10:28:07
The day we have an openly gay current player in the National Football League is the day I'll feel we've made real progress.

I've been friends for a few years with an NFL kicker who is gay and fairly open about it with friends. I'm pretty sure most of his team knows. He even goes to social functions with his partner.

I've been encouraging him to be the first openly gay NFL player (who is current, not retired). I think it would be a landmark moment and he would get so much respect for it. But I doubt he'll come out while he's still playing.
Mee   | 189.141.138.xxx | 2008-08-23 10:33:49
Im Mexican, but I'm Really Really happy because Matthew Mitcham got GOLD.. He is great!! Love him!!
shawshank   | 213.190.147.xxx | 2008-08-23 10:34:27
Lois Lane   | 91.107.173.xxx | 2008-08-23 11:26:29
All the haters and trolls can drop off. It's important that gay people be out and honest if they want to be, and I'm straight. Don't let straight people bully you, bullying has gone on for far too long. Stand your corner and be proud of who you are and your achivements.

Well done Matt with his Gold in the Olympics!
chris wallace     | 81.156.29.xxx | 2008-08-23 11:32:20
unbelievable performance by matthew!
although i was cheering for tom daley, matts win brought a lump to my throat
Ricasso   | 81.104.25.xxx | 2008-08-23 12:17:56
Depressing statistics indeed but alas homophobia, in one form or another, is still as prevalent in 2008 as it ever was. I agree, whilst sexuality isn't the singular most significant factor one needs 2 consider when discussing the achievements of our worlds greatest athletes, it shudn't be treat with disdain either.

Matts win is certainly a fabulous win for both himself and country (and I'm a bloody Brit)and it's a success that isn't extricably linked to what he does in his private life. Well done Mr Mitcham!
kevin   | 220.233.21.xxx | 2008-08-23 12:26:28
Homosexuality is against biblical value and this is a form of sin and will be resulting in being roasted in hell.
Trames   | 74.179.13.xxx | 2008-08-23 16:11:11
I agree with you about it is a sin, I am a straight mother of three, however I must take the plank out of my own eye in order to judge, it is not my thing, but to each his/her own. I must answer for my sin not theirs.
David - Don't go there Kevin   | 69.180.219.xxx | 2008-08-23 19:38:49
What are you doing coming on this site just to be a troll? Is that part of your dedication to evangelism? To beat gays over the head with the Bible and tell us we're going to hell?

Kevin, I hate to tell you, but the Bible was written by men, not God. Men made God, not the other way around. Therefore, there is no hell, and being gay is not a sin.

I hope one day you'll become a bit more educated, and hopefully quit giving Christians such a bad image.
Peter   | 210.6.157.xxx | 2008-08-26 22:13:39
Sorry kevin,

Wrong judgment and very wrong conclusion.
Anonymous   | 68.39.66.xxx | 2008-10-04 22:04:24
There are so many things we do wrong according to the bible. Example- Premarital sex, magic, and according to the bible we are not suppose to call our fathers father. So before you go gay bashing examine the Bible and see how being gay isn't the only wrong thing we do. Not that being gay is wrong and its certainly not a choice(why would people not want to be accepted and different).
James   | 69.237.149.xxx | 2008-08-23 13:39:00
There may also be another reason why there aren't more openly gay athletes at the Bejing Olympics. Remember, homosexuality in China is still illegal. Being open about your sexuallity isn't exactly safe.
Anonymous   | 124.176.41.xxx | 2008-08-23 18:29:07
"There may also be another reason why there aren't more openly gay athletes at the Bejing Olympics. Remember, homosexuality in China is still illegal. Being open about your sexuallity isn't exactly safe."

Sexual orientation isn't illegal. But if two gay men had sex in Tiananmen Square, there might be a problem!
Marc Faw Faw - HELL YES!!     | 24.249.72.xxx | 2008-08-24 11:19:36
IT IS ABOUT TIME A CUTE GAY BOY WON A GOLD MEDAL IT MAKES ALL OF US HERE IN OKLAHOMA PROUD!!!
Tony - re: