Johnny Weir: The Outsports Interview, Part 2 Print E-mail
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In Part 2, Johnny talks about people asking if he's gay, sequins, crazy fans and his documentary film

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In the first part of our interview with Johnny Weir, the Olympic figure skater talked at length about his sport and his upcoming Stars, Stripes and Skates event. But you can’t escape an interview with Outsports without answering some questions about sexual orientation, and Johnny did just that.

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Johnny Weir and his mom, Patti, in Times Square.



Outsports: Why did you decide to do Pop Star on Ice, which was fantastic, by the way?
Johnny Weir: Thank you very much. I did Pop Star on Ice because it seemed like a fun thing to do. I’ve always watched reality television and I’ve always watched documentaries, and I’m a huge documentary film fan. And why not show people what my life is really like? I’m not just the kid who people make presumptions about standing in rhinestones in the middle of an ice surface. They’re going to know, know what I go through to get to that point. I didn’t just do it for myself, but I wanted to show people what my sport really was.

OS: What do you think when people ask, “Are you gay?”
Johnny: I think everyone has the right to ask people anything. But the way I see things like coming out parties and being very theatrical and making such a big spectacle of things, I just don’t agree with making it a big spectacle. I was born Johnny Weir, whatever that entails. People can make their own assumptions and people can talk and people can chat, but it doesn’t change who I am and all of these things that contribute to my life. Being gay? I’m all for it. I love gay people, I love African-American people, I love lesbians, I love Asians. To me, there’s no importance to making a show out of something that’s just you. I promote Johnny Weir and I’m as ridiculous as they come, but that’s what I want people to see is that I’m Johnny Weir. You can label me however you want to, but there’s not one thing in my life that defines me except myself. Everyone has a right to question things.

OS: If you’re an athlete, you don’t have to call a press conference and say, “Yep, I’m gay,” to let the world know who you are, because actions can speak louder than words?
Johnny: Exactly. I don’t want the people watching figure skating and people in the world who know who I am, I don’t want them to relate to what I am, I want them to relate to who I am. It’s not like anyone goes up to Michael Jordan asking, “Hey, are you black?” For me, those kinds of things make a person up. I’ve never once asked a person if they are gay or black. I just ask what their name is, and that to me is something that’s very important. I have no shame in who I am, and who I go to sleep with is a very small part of who I am.

OS: You once wrote on your Web site that, “You can’t judge a book by its cover.” I don’t know you, but I’ve followed your career for several years. I saw Pop Star on Ice. I know lots of straight guys, and I’ve never seen any of them do the things I’ve seen you do . And it seems to me that you haven’t just shown us the cover of the Johnny Weir book, you’ve shown us several chapters. You’ve shown us the 10-page glossy photo insert. From everything you’ve shown us over, can’t we at least discern whether Barnes & Noble would put the book in the gay & lesbian section?

Johnny: My hope is that Barnes & Noble will put it in the best-seller section.

OS: How many sequins are too many?
Johnny: What kind of question is that? There are never too many.

OS: Athletes are known to have women throw themselves at the big-name stars. I know Johnny’s Angels are mostly middle-age housewives, but do you have women, and men, throw themselves at you?
Johnny: There have been a few occasions. There’s one Japanese lady who doesn’t throw herself at me, but she comes to my ice rink, she’ll live in the hotel near my ice rink for weeks at a time. There’s a Russian girl who does the same thing. I love my fans, but after the last Olympics I got pretty burned with people who sent death threats, and PETA was after my ass, and there were people who would show up and videotape me, there was a lady from Brazil who found out where I lived and sat at the end of my driveway. It’s scary, and I feel bad that that changed how I can be so open with my fans. Those people ruin it for everyone.

OS: What’s your favorite cocktail?
Johnny: A bellini.

OS: Favorite music artist?
Johnny: I have like three. I love Christina Aguilera, because she’s very talented and she’s never afraid to use that talent, never balks when people tell her to not try something, whether it’s dirty or whether it’s ‘20s, ‘30s, ‘40s-style music in her last album. I love Lady Gaga because she’s an original and she has some fun stuff to sing about. And there’s a Russian artist named Sergey Lazarev, and I find his voice very appealing. He has a range, he sings very well. I love music. I never go a second without listening to music.

OS: What has been the happiest moment of your life?
Johnny: It has to be one of those moments when you cry. There have been many, because I’m so emotional and such a diva at the same time. There was one moment, many years ago, when skating was going so well, and I was at a party, and lots of people were coming up to me, and we were having fun. I was pretty young, maybe 19. I was so happy because everything was going right. It wasn’t an event, I just felt so happy. And I cried. That was one moment I’ll never forget. And of course, walking into the Opening Ceremonies of the last Olympic Games. They announced the United States of America, and a very international crowd was cheering. The United States gets a lot of bad press, and I cried because I was so happy with what I had achieved in such a short time. When I started skating, I said I was going to make the Olympic Games. And to look back at when I was 12 and starting out, and to know that I had the drive and ability to finish something I set out to do, it made me so happy.

You can read Part 1 of our Johnny Weir interview here.

Be sure to check out Johnny at the Stars, Stripes and Skates event in Danbury, Conn., Sept. 26, 7:30pm.

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Enigma  - Impressive   |68.69.209.xxx |2009-09-08 13:23:23
Johnny Weir is so ahead of the time. I love the fact that he doesn't feel the
need to come out and say "hey I'm gay". I long for the day that there
will be such a general acceptance that there will be no need to hold news
conferences or make any announcements. It is what it is.

Great job on a
terrific two part interview guys!
charley   |75.26.150.xxx |2010-01-06 07:15:40
How about he just says, I'm gay- next question.
George   |207.62.246.xxx |2009-09-08 15:33:18
I kind of have mixed feelings about the way he handles the question of "Are
you gay?" I totally respect his right to privacy and I agree that his
sexuality shouldn't be a big deal. However, he doesn't have to be
"theatrical" or make a "big spectacle of things," he can simply
answer the question yes or no and move on. I guess that's easy for me to say
since I'm not in the limelight, and when someone asks me that question it
doesn't make headlines, but I thought I'd just give my two cents. Oh, and do
people really have "coming out parties!?!"
Anonymous   |76.216.162.xxx |2010-02-19 15:05:34
Well, people turn it into a big deal. There are so many close minded people out
there against love, I bet Johnny doesn't want their threats..
randy owens   |67.174.46.xxx |2010-03-02 19:25:11
I think there is no need to even ask Johnny if he's gay. Isn't it obvious? And
being theatric and dramatic etc is what we love about him. He's an artist and
real human being.
Rae   |68.190.13.xxx |2010-03-13 09:14:58
I think perhaps you miss the point a bit. People shouldn't ask the question at
all. As he said, we don't ask Michael Jordan if he is black. We also don't ask
people we assume are straight, "Are you straight?". Truth is, that we
don't have the right to know that about anyone celebrity or not. Johnny is not
the one making the spectacle about it. He said he would not answer that
question. It is reporters like this one that find the need to keep asking it.
The real questions is why do THEY feel the need for and obsession with the
answer.

Ultimately, I think the point is that if you are at a press conference
about figure skating, you should ask about figure skating. If Johnny ever holds
a press conference in his bedroom, then I would say the topic is open for
discussion.
Jack   |75.91.54.xxx |2010-03-17 07:16:12
Ah, run that by me again..."we don't ask Michael Jordan if he is
black"??...ah, that's because we don't have to. And, as for asking straight
people if they're straight, I'm guessing most if not all would simply say 'yes'.
Your point makes no sense. And, Johnny Weird is just using this for PR
mileage. I don't think he honestly cares what anyone else thinks. I love him
for who he is. Makes no difference to me whether he officially comes out. He's
obviously gay and proud! Go GURL!
mld   |67.240.2.xxx |2010-04-16 13:59:13
With some gays, you might have to ask. With Johnny, YOU DONT need to ask.
GregV   |24.82.166.xxx |2010-04-20 15:49:45
Maybe Michael Jordan is not the best example because race in his case is so
visible.
Maybe Corbin Bleu (from High School Musical) is a better example. is
he black? Is he white with kinky hair? Is he mulatto? Is he something else
(like Hawaiian)? I don't know. But if the press obsessed over clarifying his
race, he might well ask why.

Yes, MOST straight peeople will answer "Are
you straight? with a "yes," or even a "Hell yes!" But I might
respect a straight person all the more if he would answer that with the answer
that Johnny has given. I wish more straight celebrities would say that it
shouldn't matter and that we should all get behind rights for everyone.

I
don't have the slightest idea if Johnny is straight or gay, or even something
else like bisexual or even intersexed. But a lot of people seem to feel the
need to label him, and I think the questions should be turned on why that
happens.
Anonymous   |75.201.126.xxx |2010-04-29 13:49:30
Yes, people do.
And maybe instead of saying yes or no and moving on, he probably
wants people to know how he feels about the question. Why not?
Sed   |71.166.12.xxx |2009-09-08 15:52:24
Johnny Weir is just another closeted gay athlete, which is OK there is nothing
wrong with that.

Let's not treat him like he's doing something brave or special
by being a flamer because he's not.
t  - when the elevator fails to go to the top floor   |74.72.84.xxx |2010-02-09 23:48:36
right on the money.

I seriously think there is something not quite right with
him. He is so wraped up in trying to make a statement but I don't think he is
comfortable with his sexuality no matter what he is. I think he likes the idea
of being gay, but the idea of the act of sex is disgusting to him. In this way,
he has an immaturity that he needs to deal with or he will become emotionally
damaged.
Anonymous   |70.112.17.xxx |2010-02-23 21:16:28
I'm a dyke. I don't run around telling people I'm a dyke because they figure it
out on their own.

That's the thing about the closet. If you don't act like you
live in one, you never have to keep coming out of it.
mld   |67.240.2.xxx |2010-04-16 14:00:49
AMEN!
jackie   |76.180.16.xxx |2010-02-24 17:18:40
Um. WHAT??? Johnny knows EXACTLY who he is. More so than most. He is not
damaged, nor will he be. He want's people to focus on his skating not his love
life. Good for him. Do people ask you if you are straight? I love how people
act like they know someone. Jeez.
randy owens   |67.174.46.xxx |2010-03-02 19:29:30
Good point. What serious olympic athlete has time for a love life? It's
superflous until the games are done and he can rest. Believe me, if you can't
see he's gay and he's wonderfully comfortable in it, you need to get to know
some gays, or at least some real folks.
jackie   |76.180.16.xxx |2010-02-24 17:25:24
I love Johnny. Where do people get off? Thinking they know what is best for
him. He knows exactly who he is. He is flaming. I don't think he has to say
it.
rcwl   |218.40.167.xxx |2010-02-17 01:40:35
Real cool reply. Sound like you're the one in the closet. Flamer? Learn that
in the 6th grade did you? I agree with one of you, there will be a day when it
won't have to be a issue, and he doesn't have to hide who he is
randy owens   |67.174.46.xxx |2010-03-02 19:27:23
How can you say he's closeted? Does someone have to hit you over the head with

a prada pump? All the pressure to be a "masculine" iceskater; I
thought that was an oxymoron. It's all relative.
Alexis  - Heh   |93.73.158.xxx |2009-09-08 22:41:26
Johnny Weir the great. He's one of the best figure skaters who lived on this
planet ever. But his coquetry with questions about sexuality is ridiculous.
Everybody know he's gay, he's not closeted and he understand that everybody
know. He speak specific expressions, he represents the documentary at gay film
festival. His colleagues speak about his gayness in clear. But when he was asked
about homophobia at festival he told some bullshit about Russian ballet. He talk
with gay media and say bosh like "Hey, are you black". It's stupid and
bored enough Good luck, Johnny!
sherenao  - yeah   |93.73.158.xxx |2009-09-08 23:40:01
alexis i agree with you. our lovely miss weir became bored a bit and it's rather
strange for me. wutsup?! after all this lady gaga icegig with painty pan and
terrrrrible wardrobe /more tasteless than paris hilton's foolish jupons/ he say
something like "guys i luv you all, keep speculate". gurrl please! if
you said a then say b. but i know that it's not my business and johnny weir is
not matthew mitcham, he's another little scared flamboy in this sports but for
some reason i like him.
Mike   |67.243.23.xxx |2009-09-09 04:23:47
< . . . . I long for the day that there
will be such a general acceptance that
there will be no need to hold news
conferences or make any announcements. . . .
>

Unfortunately, we've not yet arrived at that day. So given that fact, it's
a shame he hasn't been able to come out.

It seems Weir thinks he's being very
clever and almost superior with his approach to the subject. But to me he's
missing the mark on this one.

There is still tremendous value in coming out
publicly and privately regardless of whether you're a public figure or not.
mld   |67.240.2.xxx |2010-04-16 14:03:47
What makes you think he hasn't come out to the people who SHOULD know--friends
and family.

He doesn't need to come out to US. He owes us nothing more than
a good show.
Mike   |67.243.23.xxx |2009-09-09 04:27:09
And he doesn't need to hold a press conference or make a big staged coming out
event. He can simply go out in public with a boyfriend (hold hands, kiss, etc.)
or even more simply answer the question.
roy  - MR.   |206.223.190.xxx |2009-09-09 08:27:06
What a bore. There should be no theatrics and it is not easy to come out as gay
anyway. He isn't being original or political - He's being evasive and somewhat
superior. I live a life where people know I'm gay and I didn't have a coming
out party or any fireworks. Just answer the question and move on. I'm more
interested in whether you support pubic health care than who you sleep with, mr
bore.
David Ehrenstein  - I don't think he's closeted at all   |99.41.172.xxx |2009-09-10 11:12:50
He's saying "Isn't it screamingly obvious that I'm gay?" What he doesn't
want is to be seen as a gay spokesmodel. Skating is the most important thing for
him. Well he IS a gay spokesmodel, whether he likes it or not.
Steve Robinson  - PETA at Vancouver Games   |67.97.210.xxx |2009-09-10 16:35:26
PETA has recenlty announced it will be protesting at the Vancouver Games. Watch
out Johnny!
Joel   |12.54.126.xxx |2009-10-02 12:33:04
Be my boyfriend Johnny.
charley   |75.25.96.xxx |2009-10-15 10:47:49
I like and admire Johnny Weir. But wouldn't it be nice to just answer truthfully
and move on? He might even give a boost to some gay kid who wants to be a world
class figure skater or just needs to know there are successful gay athletes.
Anonymous   |76.216.162.xxx |2010-02-19 15:09:50
Well maybe he isn't gay. You don't know he is..

I personally LOVE Johnny. And I
LOVE gays. So.. who cares? It DOESNT MATTER, guys. Leave him be!
merryjoe   |216.144.233.xxx |2009-10-28 18:37:37
why is everyone Outsports writes about lately in the closet? This website is
getting depressing.
kulio469   |99.63.93.xxx |2009-11-07 17:14:54
Almost all of you are missing his point completely. He's not being evasive, or
coy, or 'in-the-closet' at all. He's trying to get to a 'post-out' world where
a person's sexual orientation shouldn't be an issue. He's right. No one would
ask a Black athlete if he was Black. No one would ask a straight athlete if he
was straight. It would be a 'non-issue'. I'm an out young gay male, and I
totally understand what he's talking about. You don't have to constantly state
the obvious.
thinker  - Thank you Kulio469   |96.224.45.xxx |2010-02-11 22:00:29
Thank god SOMEone gets it.
PumaJ  - Right-on Kulio   |72.90.124.xxx |2010-03-05 22:30:59
Kulio469, you've got the right attitude, IMHO. All of this folderol over Weir's
sexual preferences just seems ridiculous to me. Who or what he or any other
skater prefers in bed isn't really our business.

No one asks athletes if they
are straight, so neither should they be asked if they are gay.
Anonymous   |63.24.7.xxx |2009-11-25 01:03:28
He's not closeted. There aren't any closet doors strong enough to enclose that
many sequined costumes. His closet has burst out in flames along with him. Do
I care if he's gay? No. He's not attractive.
Cassandra  - Writer   |68.115.37.xxx |2010-02-22 19:03:14
Firstly, Ok, Ok, I know this is a hotbed issue, but please! Now you have gone
too far! Not attractive? Are you blind?
I needed to get that off my chest before
I moved on to the important segment of my response.
Scondly,It should not be an
issue whether he's gay or not and it will never become a non-issue until
everyone stops insisting that he tell us if he is or not.
NOW are you getting
it?
Thirdly, why is everyone jumping all over him? He isn't the one who brought
it up. I keep reading things like, he's trying to, he wants ...etc. Ah, well,
actually ... no. He didn't want to talk about it, the interviewer did and he got
the answer he got. He was NOT owed any other answer and neither are any of you.
it really is his business and no one else's.
Fourth and my final point, if you
are going to comment on an English language site, learn to read, speak and type
it correctly, so that what you are saying comes across clearly and concisely.
Why? If you don't you will only sound ignorant and your opinion will be
disregarded by those who read it. Good language and communication skills are the
first step toward making a being hear, respected and making a difference.
JohnnyWeirAngel  - Johnny not attractive? I beg to differ!!   |76.120.119.xxx |2010-02-25 20:31:10
I completely agree with Kulio469's comment and as far as the one above stating
that Johny is not attractive. Are you blind?? He's breathtakingly beautiful!
I love you Johnny
Anonymous   |63.24.7.xxx |2009-11-25 01:05:16
I wouldn't mind seeing Lysacek and Joubert going at it.
Tawny   |64.12.116.xxx |2010-01-18 20:04:14
Oh how I love Johnny Weir. It is obvious he is gay. People should just stop
asking. I think part of the reason he does not come out and say he is gay
because he is still an amateur skater and the big "gay admission" is
frowned upon by the federation.
I don't care if Johnny is straight, gay,
striped or checked he is so funny and I cannot wait to see what he will do when
he is done competetive skating.
Susan  - Proud Weir is Representing the U.S. AGAIN   |71.191.1.xxx |2010-01-18 21:04:33
It's a sad world when everyone has to wonder about anything some guy does that
doesn't concern them. It's a sad world that it has to matter - that gays around
the world need him to make a declaration so their lives can be just that much
easier. Kudos to Johnny Weir for trying to bring us all up to where we should
be: UNCONCERNED.
Sandy  - Folks, its OUTsports, after all.   |76.25.50.xxx |2010-01-23 08:14:56
I appreciate the fact Johnny is trying to move beyond having to come out. I
compare this to what happened to Neil Patrick Harris, who only came out because
people were going to out him anyway. I wish people could get over the need to
out people in general. YOU need celebrities to come out; they may or may not
need to come out publically and we should respect their wishes.
David Ehrenstein  - What Part of "Out" Don't You Understand?   |99.41.172.xxx |2010-01-23 11:23:58
We'll move "beyond having to come out" when the Heterosexual
Dictatorship is destroyed.

As for Johnny Weir there's precious little chance
of his being mistaken for straight.
lacharlie13   |76.95.203.xxx |2010-01-25 12:43:33
Isaw the documentary and it was excellent and there was no doubt he was gay
ELWatson  - froghollow   |198.134.96.xxx |2010-01-26 14:25:39
Maybe -- just maybe, his sponsors demand that he not come out - so he's doing
all but.....without his sponsors right now he wouldn't be able to skate....
It
would be a very Johnny thing to do - to take it to the total limit without
violating his sponsor contracts...
ABleedingCorpse  - I Don't Need To Ask   |70.237.196.xxx |2010-01-29 04:25:34
I like Johnny. He has great talent on the ice. But these answers he give are
not helping. Does he need to answer the 'are you gay' question? No. It's pretty
clear like night and day. But if asked he could be a little more pose about it
and just say "Seriously? You have to ask?".

One thing the gay
community needs to accept is it really isn't about weither you're gay or not,
it's how you handle it and the attitude towards it. Trying to be cleaver and
corky about such questions is why straight people roll their eyes when they
speak. Just be honest and straight (no pun) forward and don't treat it like an
issue.

And it's Ice Skating...the question should really be "Are you
straight?". Believe it or not, America is ready for gays...we're just not
that accepting of the attitude because it comes off as stuck up.
Solfitara  - Not cookie cutter   |24.119.85.xxx |2010-01-29 22:33:23
Johnny's neat. He's my hero. He's not trying to be superior; he's projecting
into the future and envisioning a post-acceptance world. We'll get there yet.
Mark my words.

Back in high school a closeted gay guy used to harass me (a
nerdy girl who didn't bother anyone). I couldn't understand why he felt the need
to belittle me...he was wealthy, better looking, had more friends, cooler, etc.
The poor guy was hostile version of Richard Cory.

Now I believe that he was
paranoid and just wanted to make sure there was decoy on a lower rung of the
pecking order to draw any hostile fire. The guy later contracted AIDS and died.
Bless his soul.

I look forward to the day when gays won't feel the need to be
or act closeted or target a lower member of the pecking order with their
hostilities.

I've never felt obligated to announce that I am heterosexual.
Neither should gays. I live in one of the reddest states, Oklahoma. And even in
the home state of Sally Kern, gays are coming out in high school now, which is
great. Sad thing is, I knew about their coming out before some of their parents
did. (My kid was a straight member of the Gay-Straight Alliance.)

Gays need not
live by any cookie cutter rules. They can be whatever they want, as long as they
do not mislead any admirers. And Johnny does not mislead anyone, and is a role
model by being a portrait of mental and physical health.

I hope and expect to
see full rights for gays in my lifetime, just as I have seen a black President.
By the way, Barack Obama did a great job deflating the Republicans in Congress
on TV today. Faced down an entire room full of them all by his lonesome self.
Masterful.
Erica  - dont care   |69.132.193.xxx |2010-01-31 03:57:29
i dont cae whether hes gay or not i think he freaken hot
eve ringel   |71.168.200.xxx |2010-02-02 09:44:28
When that child skates he transcends sexuallity--he becomes an angel
Rikard   |192.251.125.xxx |2010-02-06 02:15:55
Not long after coming out I was at a party chatting with an old straight friend
and met a young woman he knew. She asked me very directly with her european
accent "are you straight?" It was a strange relief to smile and tell her
no. I don't think we are asking Johnny the right question. We want to know if he
is seeing anyone, if his love life is fulfilled. We want to know he isn't an
olympian robot. It's the humanity of the athletes that make us cheer for them
and identify with them.
Anonymous   |64.131.188.xxx |2010-02-15 19:35:11
zomg he's so gay
Cindy   |207.35.163.xxx |2010-02-16 05:53:52
I find it annoying that people seem to be pushing Johnny into either admitting
he's gay or not...isn't that his own business? I mean, we don't ask football
players "Do you have sex with women?" What does is have to do with the
sport? All I know is Johnny Weir doesn't seem to want to be defined as
"that gay skater"...just "that great skater". By wanting him to
'confess', you people seem to want to put him in a neat little box to be able to
define who he is by what his sexual orientation is...do we define black people
by their color? Women by their sex? How about just concentrating on what's
important; his talent, his drive, his qualities and his ambition! C'mon people,
evolve already!
Anonymous   |66.241.88.xxx |2010-02-16 11:34:16
Thank you, to another person who gets it. What does "out" mean anyway,
out of normal, out of it, what? He's in.
Johnny's in his own, all his own and
that's more important than who he's with, he's with all of his because he skates
and speaks from his heart!!!
Anonymous   |68.18.209.xxx |2010-02-16 19:42:47
It is nice to see people get it. He isnt hiding anything, and his answers all
basically boil down to the fact that his sexuality is a non-issue. What matters
is what kind of person he is, the work he does, and the art he brings into the
world.
Evander   |161.247.7.xxx |2010-02-17 06:37:13
There's a simple solution. Just ask his boyfriend.
Anonymous   |67.142.171.xxx |2010-02-17 08:18:45
Nobody asks other skaters wether they are straight or not.I think he is right he
does not have to answer that question.
jigglypuff  - Actiona Speaks louder than Words   |170.252.54.xxx |2010-02-17 09:12:56

Sometimes you don't have to say the words to let other know who you are
and what you are.

Action speaks louder than words.
If Johnny is a
closed gay who is afraid to come out, he wouldn't dress the way he is;
he wouldn't walk with a purse; he wouldn't put on lipstick and pluck his
eye brows.

Everything he does already showed us who he is, he
doesn't have to say those words.

We should not identify or catagorize
anyone by his/her sexuality, race or religion. He is just Johnny Weir.
Peroid.
Coraline  - Really?   |72.82.10.xxx |2010-02-17 13:31:41
Okay, I understand the interest that people exhibit about each person's
sexuality, be it a choice or a biological selection (whichever you believe), but
I mean can't we just appreciate him for his skating and his amazingly graceful
movements? It's clear that he has no shame regarding his public appearance, and
I find that to be such a credit. I just think he is an amazing athlete and a
true character and that honestly has nothing to do with his sexual orientation.
Michael   |71.188.13.xxx |2010-02-18 20:07:22
I love and admire the young man, but I do think he is being too coy.

It would
be a boost of confidence for lots of young gay people if he would simply say,
"Yes, I like guys". To think we are in a post-closeted world is just
unrealistic.
lisa   |72.0.178.xxx |2010-02-19 21:08:59
Johnny Weir is a great skater. Who cares if he is gay or not. If that's the
lifestyle he chooses, it's his life. It appears obvious that he is gay, but as
he said, you can't judge a book by it's cover. And if he chooses not to answer
it, that's his choice and he should not be ostracized for it. By the judges or
anyone else. We are all God's children and we should all be loved for who we
are, not for who people think we are or aren't.
Justin  - OMG of course he's a queen...   |58.111.254.xxx |2010-02-19 23:12:04
It's obvious he is gay, why would anyone need to even ask the question? And
more power to him, he's a great skater AND we need more gay athletes. Isn't it
funny how the women here don't want to accept that, easy for them to say, but
the gay men know it.
Justin  - re:   |58.111.254.xxx |2010-02-19 23:14:46
Cindy wrote:
...do we define black people by their color?  Women by their sex? How
about just concentrating on what's important; his talent, his drive,
his qualities and his ambition! C'mon people, evolve already!


Actually, yes we do.

And I tend to think that a lot of straight
people just don't get it.
Rochelle Upton  - Johnny can skate   |71.6.121.xxx |2010-02-20 12:27:04
Johnny Weir, the most graceful and physically beautiful skater out there. I am
truthfully quite surprised that he didn't medal. He was so gracious the whole
time, and he worked so hard as well, when he got lower marks than even those who
were so inferior I just felt saddened. He took it well, and I just have to say
he is such a joy to watch in every way.
decora  - leave johnny alone!!!   |99.200.16.xxx |2010-02-20 19:20:55
you're lucky he even performed for you bastards!
piggledy  - re: leave johnny alone!!!   |87.162.48.xxx |2010-02-21 08:22:27
decora wrote:
leave johnny alone!!!
Hey let's all go on Youtube with smeared makeup and blanket over the head
and say it out loud!
Cassandra   |68.115.37.xxx |2010-02-22 19:20:18
Hey, that was uncalled for. I happen to really appreciate his artistry, and it
has nothing to do with trying to hide from anything or anyone. The man sat there
waiting for his scores wearing a wreath of roses on his head. Does this really
strike you as the kind of person who's hiding who he is, who's concerned about
being judged? Maybe he just wants to stop being asked this stupid question.
You
know the actor Gareth David Lloyd happens to be straight, is currently engaged
to be married in fact. Why is this relevant? I am getting to that, really. He
worked for a couple of years with John Barrowman on Torchwood where he played
Barrowman's character's lover. Many, many times he has kissed Mr. Barrowman for
work, at conventions and so on. naturally he got asked how was it many times.
For the first three years he was very gracious about it and answered honestly,
that he didn't mind it at all. That JB was a good kisser. After three years of
being asked the same darn thing over and over he got sick of it and said,
"Oh Rubbish!" He later apologized to JB explaining he was sick of the
question. JB completely understood. My point is, maybe Johnny is just OMFG sick
of this question already. Maybe it's time to do as he asks, like him or don't.
for who he is, for what you're allowed to see and leave the rest alone!
Scotty C  - Why do some gay people act like flamers?   |72.255.4.xxx |2010-02-22 18:16:21
I want to know why gay people act like flamers. You talk about how skating has
nothing to do with sexual preference which I agree with, but what does being a
flamer have to do with being gay either. How does putting your junk in someones
rear, or having someone else's junk in your rear make you act like a flamer? I
am a straight man and I have no problem with gay people, but flamboyant gay
people like Johnny Weir rub me the wrong way. I think most people are offended
by or dislike people who are jerks, mean, rude, or even people who may be
friendly but they just have an obnoxious personality. To me being offended by
someone like Johnny Weir is the same thing. He can certainly be whoever he
wants but that doesn't mean that people can't dislike that or be offended by it.
If I were gay I would not be happy with the way people like Weir portray the
gay community.
Cassandra  - flaming   |68.115.37.xxx |2010-02-22 19:27:53
So what you're saying is that all gay people should be exactly like straight
people, only just gay.
But they shouldn't be different in any outwardly
acknowledged way?
No one gay, straight or bi should ever be Flamboyant or
outrageous or silly. Do you like old movies? because that would include all most
every star that ever worked for MGM during it's golden era.
I would like to know
why being different and flashy or sparkly and giggly should be so anathema?
I
happen to be a bisexual woman who born both bi and extremely feminine and
dramatic. I have been told I am sooo feminine that I am not merely a woman, I am
a drag queen trapped in a woman's body. There was a certain kind of truth to it,
that made it funny, but more importantly when I really thought about what those
words meant? I found it to be the most profound compliment ever!
Maybe one day
you'll see that being different from one another is what makes people great.
randy owens   |67.174.46.xxx |2010-03-03 11:01:20
You need to get to know more gay people. I used to think like you until I met
some flamers, hung around long enough to see most are just being themselves.
And that is OK. Gays come in all types as do straights, they are just less
afraid to be themselves like straights tend to be.
Liuliwuyu  - one two three   |221.200.228.xxx |2010-02-23 07:34:42
Is sleeping with another man the one and only thing to make one gay?

Will the
media let it go—— "I'm gay,next question?" Someone is not
thinking.

Way poeple care if he is gay or not? Really, why people cares.
Anonymous   |98.213.126.xxx |2010-02-23 12:52:23
i think hes cool and figure skating is pretty next to curling figure skating is
my favorite olympic sport cuz im a girl but i dont care if hes gay cuz i have my
own opinion about him i would just want to know cuz my friend asked me if he was
today and i didnt know so i want to have the right info b4 i accidently make a
mistake
Anonymous   |99.3.63.xxx |2010-02-25 11:14:30
plhgg2  - [p   |99.149.141.xxx |2010-02-28 15:31:03
What does it matter?
Kiki   |38.104.98.xxx |2010-03-03 10:34:48
He doesn't want to talk about it. That's not being theatrical, it's being
private.
randy owens   |67.174.46.xxx |2010-03-03 10:58:28
Amen! Is it really necessary for anyone to "come out" to everyone?
Everyone knows Johnny is queer and that is great. So leave it alone. I don't
understand the big deal in this day and age of a public person who is obviously
a flamer to have to admit. Let the man have a little mystery. He is doing
great things for gays, straights etc. And I agree there need be no
categorization with people. You are not defined by your sexuality. Jesus leave
it alone. Johnny is an open, sensitive artist who happens to be hilarious.
Watch his shows on Sundance.
Irina   |80.218.216.xxx |2010-03-04 13:31:10
He is a great skater, unbelievable. This gay topic is though stupid and Johnny
is right: he's making business of people's stupidity. Half of interest to him
wouldn't be there if they NEW for sure. Bravo Johnny!
Fishcakes   |173.161.190.xxx |2010-03-25 19:50:18
I don't like the racial exaples ("You wouldn't ask a black athlete if he was
black" comparisons to asking an athlete if he is gay or not. There are
many STRAIGHT men who are feminine and girly so to say it's obvious that Weir is
gay is naive and stupid of you. Whereas a black man IS obviously black because
all you have to do is look at his skin. This reminds me of how white gay people
love to say the hardships they face are the same as the hardships black people
face. It's NOT the same.
Joanne  - Little Boxes - Big Labels   |76.213.247.xxx |2010-04-29 03:40:56
One problem with these labels "gay" and "straight" and even
"bi" in general is that they are very limiting ways of viewing people.
Human sexual behavior is not always set in one mode. Just because someone may
not be strictly straight does not automatically make them "gay." People
evolve over time, try new things...

I agree with Johnny, categorizing people
into neat little boxes based on externalities such as the gender of who they are
sleeping with is not an interesting (or I would add, accurate) way of getting to
know someone. And besides, the answer may change over time, so how real is it
anyway?

I think Johnny objects to being stuck in anybody's box and SO DO I. I
have been "straight," "lesbian," "celibate" and
"bi" and finally just got sick of the labels and most of all having to
"just pick one." None of these scenarios define WHO I am.

So we keep
hearing this question about Johnny: "is he gay or not?" As if each of
us is only ONE "thing"? This in itself is already a limiting perception
held by OTHER people, not us. We don't want to be defined according to these
type of categories and especially not by other people's definitions of them.

It
would be great if people would listen to what Johnny keeps repeating over and
over-- this is NOT about "coming out" or not coming out. It is about
being defined by WHO we are, not WHAT we are! It is about defining ourselves if
and only when we want to be defined (or NOT).

I think Johnny's way of looking
at this issue is very interesting and important and he is not alone in holding
this position. Many in the LGBT community identify themselves based on their
sexual orientation. But not all of us. I wish we could finally move on from
this boring question!
Joanne   |76.213.247.xxx |2010-04-29 15:21:17
(cont) So we keep hearing this question about Johnny: "is he gay or
not?" As if each of us is only ONE "thing"? This in already
a limiting perception. Some of us don't want to be defined according
to these categories and especially not by other people's definitions
of them.

It would be great if people would listen to what Johnny
keeps repeating over and over-- this is NOT about "coming out" or not coming out. It is about being defined by WHO we are, not WHAT we are! It
is about defining ourselves if and only when we want to be defined (or
NOT).

I think Johnny's way of looking at this issue is very interesting
and important and he is not alone in holding this position. I wish we
could finally move on from this question!
Anonymous  - Hmph.   |75.201.126.xxx |2010-04-29 13:47:28
Johnny can say whatever he likes about himself. No one is stopping him, no one
has the right to tell him he can't. Leave him alone, why do we care whether he's
gay or not? He's gorgeous, he's funny, he's talented = He's Johnny G. Weir. No
one can change that!
Joanne   |76.213.247.xxx |2010-04-29 15:22:19
YES! Great answer.
Pepper  - Both Ways   |71.164.126.xxx |2010-05-02 14:09:46
It's not beyond the realm of possibility that he swings both ways.
Astra   |141.157.26.xxx |2010-05-20 19:03:56
I agree with Pepper. Even if Johnny isn't bi, being coy will keep hope alive on
both fronts. His agent is brilliant and I'm sure it was her idea to make this a
"non-issue."

Come on, his fans are old, young, straight, gay, female,
male ... and every color in the rainbow. Ninety nine percent of them think he is
hot and the other one percent think he's a "nice young man" (which he
is). Those like me who fall into the latter category like Johnny for himself.


Now if you'll excuse me, I want to read an article I found about him and his
boyfriend!
Jewel6444  - Figure Skating Establishment   |67.49.168.xxx |2010-07-05 13:28:36
I think all of you are forgetting one reason why Johnny has chosen not to
disclose his sexual preference. It has to do with the old skating
establishments, the USFSA and the ISU. Their attitude is "stay in the
closet." It's not even, "don't ask, don't tell." Even though figure
skating is one of the gayest sports around, the USFSA et al wants the general
public and the SPONSORS to believe otherwise. Johnny may want to keep skating in
the Olympic eligible division, so he doesn't want to disclose anything of his
private life that might affect how he's judged at competitions. The fact that he
has his own TV series has rankled many in the skating establishment--many are
jealous of Johnny's celebrity because they want what he has. To me, that
affected how he was judged at the Olympics. He should have been on that podium,
but he was kept off by jealous, possibly homophobic judges.
Johnny is all for
being honest, but at this point, he probably does not want to risk his skating
career by openly declaring who he is. Instead, he relies on his actions to do
the talking. He is doing everything to be obvious about who he is without
actually uttering the words. It's almost like he's thumbing his nose at the
skating establishments, while having fun with this at the same time.
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