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An attorney for Atlanta Falcons fullback Ovie Mughelli has sent cease-and-desist letters to some Web sites that have published the allegations of a man who claims to have had a sexual relationship with Mughelli.

Outsports has obtained a copy of the letter sent to Mediaoutrage.com by Phaedra Parks, an Atlanta-based attorney specializing in entertainment and sports.:

“Your blog is replete with defamatory statements as it relates to Mr. Mughelli,” the letter says. “If you do not cease and desist immediately, we will have no alternative but to seek an immediate permanent injunction and sue you for damages for defamation and false light.

“Under the law, you and your company are liable for defamatory and false statements. You and your company have continuously published and/or posted stories and/or comments that allege that Mr. Mughelli is a homosexual and is or was involved in a homosexual affair with a man. As you are aware, making libelous and defamatory statements are punishable by law and subject to monetary damages and punitive relief. Accordingly, in an action for defamation, Mr. Mughelli is not required to show that you posted the story and/or comments with a malicious intent. The fact that you posted this story and these comments at all is sufficient to subject you to liability and civil damages.”

Cynthia Counts, an Atlanta-based First Amendment lawyer who also represents Outsports, questioned Parks’ legal claim.

“Ms. Parks fails to acknowledge that Mr. Mughelli is a public figure who would be required to show actual malice,” Counts said. “In fact, as a public figure, Mr. Mughelli would have to prove not only that the statement is false, but also that the publisher either knew its statements were false or had a subjective awareness of the probable falsity of the statements.”

The cease-and-desist letter from Parks concludes with a specific course-of-action demand:

“In order avoid legal action, we hereby demand that you immediately remove each and every reference, posting, comment and statement related to any allegation(s) that Mr. Mughelli is a homosexual or has or was involved in a homosexual relationship. Additionally, we expect that you will post a retraction on your blog, emphasizing the removal of this information from your site.”

MediaOutrage.com has complied with Parks’ letter. Outsports has learned that similar letters have been sent to other Web sites. At least one of those Web sites, Queerty.com, has not complied with the letter.

The allegations first surfaced on the Atlanta-based blog MissJia.com on Jan. 5 when the site published a detailed account of an alleged sexual relationship between a then-unnamed Falcons player and another man. The next day, MissJia.com named Mughelli, and three days later the site published a video of Francois Sloan, 36, a hair stylist from Jersey City, N.J., claiming to be the man behind the allegations. MissJia.com says that as of Jan. 15, the site had not received a cease-and-desist letter.

In his e-mail account to MissJia.com, Sloan alleges that he began an intimate, sexual relationship with Mughelli in 2002 while Mughelli was at Wake Forest University. He claims he provided financial stability for Mughelli while the NFL prospect finished college. Sloan claims the relationship ended abruptly around the time Mughelli singed a six-year, $18 million contract with the Atlanta Falcons in 2007.

Outsports contacted the Atlanta Falcons, who referred all questions to Mughelli’s publicist. The publicist said, “It’s a malicious attack on my client and we have attorneys looking into it.”

Several phone calls to and messages left with Parks’ office were not returned.

Sloan said in his video statement on MissJia.com that he makes no claims about Mughelli’s sexual orientation.

“I’m not here to define Ovie’s sexuality,” Sloan said. “I will not, and never did, call Ovie gay, bisexual or on the DL.”

Counts said that Georgia courts likely would not find calling someone gay to be defamatory.

“Today, the law and society are changing and I do not believe that the mere label that someone is a ‘homosexual’ continues to be presumptively defamatory,” Counts said. “Although it would be naive to suggest that no prejudice exists against gays, Georgia courts have made clear that ‘it is not libelous to charge a person with the doing of a thing which he may legally and properly do.’ Because the Supreme Court has definitely held that homosexuality is not illegal, an assertion that someone is gay should not be defamatory.”

Outsports contacted Sloan and asked if he could provide photographs of Mughelli and himself together. Sloan said, “no comment.”

Mughelli, 29, was originally drafted by the Baltimore Ravens in 2003. He was selected second-team All-Pro in 2006. Patriots coach Bill Belichick recently called Mughelli "excellent at the point of attack" and the best fullback he's seen in a "long time." While his main roll is lead blocker, he has scored four touchdowns in his eight NFL seasons. His Ovie Mughelli Foundation “supports the overall development of youth socially, mentally and physically by implementing and assisting quality programs that educate the youth on the environment. We want to empower the youth to take ownership and pride about their lives and the roles that they play in society
.”

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Mike Jones   |173.99.145.xxx |2010-01-18 03:49:48
Outsports you're late on this one! What happened? We all have a past and
sometimes that past surface. Once done, we need to deal with it. Most
importantly, fess-up to it and move on.

My favorite celebrity comment to the
past surfacing is Madonna - "so what!"
Bill G   |173.54.179.xxx |2010-01-18 12:25:27
Cyd--
1. Being gay may not be a crime but no straight person wants that tag.
It's offensive to the majority (like it or not) and damaging to someone who gets
endorsement deals. This was CLEARLY an attack on this man and the one who
attacked him has "no comment". Nice.

2. Obama doesn't want to be
called a Muslim. That's not a crime either, but no one with sense running for
office wants that stigma.

3. Regardless of whether or not Ovie Mughelli's
attorney will win damages, an attacking blog or website will be forced to
defend. Defense costs money. Was it worth it just to spread some nasty,
unsubstantiated rumor; just to play into someone's revenge game?

4. Ovie says
he isn't gay. This other non-name attacker has what for proof? Proof that he
knew the man once upon a time but that doesn't make him gay. This is such a scam
that I'm surprised anyone (except for Black Gays with an agenda) is willing to
play into...
Miss Jia   |63.148.132.xxx |2010-01-18 14:56:40
FYI in defense of Francois, he did not say no comment to EVERYTHING. He simply
said no comment to the photos, which he does have a right to do.

In my
opinion, Francois has done more than enough to prove his side of things. The
bottom line is, sure it may potentially "ruin" future projects for Ovie,
but in my humble opinion, you should think about those things before you involve
yourself in a relationship/situation that has the potential to resurface b/c of
how you chose to end it.
Hateraid  - Are you serious?   |98.66.165.xxx |2010-01-20 20:08:44
You can't be serious about your 'holier than thou' attitude! MissJia/Kina
Kara/Brandy you think that it's your responsibility to "out" this player
because of what? morals?

Is that what p*rn stars have these days? Your d*ck
sucking bare backing is likely to resurface way before anone's "alleged"
homosexual activity. I can assure you.

"In my humble opinion" you need
to go back to butt f*ck North Carolina and try to figure out your own life
before you put others on blast.
David   |98.240.121.xxx |2010-01-24 04:57:32
He's done "more than enough" to prove his claim? Really? Like what?


I haven't seen one thing that would tell me this isn't just some guy's
delusional fantasy with nothing to prove the allegations.

Is there any proof
the two know each other, or have even met? A photo of the two together would
prove that, but the guy declines to provide that?

You'd think if A) they had
a relationship spanning years, and this guy is trying to prove it, he'd be
very eager to provide such a photo.

I have no doubt there are current NFL
players who are gay, but I'm not taking a claim like this at face value on the
word of one guy who might either have been Ovie's lover, or alternatively, might
just be mentally ill.
Julien   |67.177.116.xxx |2010-01-21 14:35:20
To correct the record: Obama has not claimed that being called "Muslim"
is offensive or derogatory, nor that he has a problem with it. He merely stated
he is christian, thereby clarifying the record. Others have noted that what is
offensive about it is that right-wing bloggers and commentators have used it as
a way to stir the already simmering, deeply-help bigoted views of their ignorant
viewers, listeners and readers.

You need to be more precise in your use of
language and the statements you make.
Paul   |76.166.172.xxx |2010-01-25 20:49:04
Bill G. sounds to me like a self-hating Republican.

Who cares if he's gay or
straight; He knows who he is. If he's too big of a coward to admit that he's gay
(IF he is), then he gets ZERO sympathy from me, especially when getting
attorneys involved. Everyone deserves a private life, but don't pull a fucking
Larry Craig and then expect sympathy.
Jay Original   |69.108.99.xxx |2010-01-18 13:36:44
I'm not sure what your point is Bill. You use the phrase "Black Gays",
but calling someone "black" used to be fighting words in the
"African American" community. People fight to change stigmas all of the
time, so that places like Uganda won't have a million man march to support
killing gay people.

I am not in favor of outing people, but this story is no
different than any other tale that gets spun in the media. Did the hookers who
cashed checks about Tiger have an agenda? Hell yeah. Did they get paid to tell?
Hell yeah. Were people rushing to hear the next word? Hells yeah. That's life.
Outsports is just reporting a story. And considering this is a gay sports site,
why not? We are not ashamed here.
BillG  - Miss Jia or Miss Jive   |173.54.179.xxx |2010-01-18 21:29:34
>we're not ashamed here<
Understood. But you have an agenda and you could
care less whether Ovie Mughelli is gay or not because it plays into your
agenda.

As for Miss Jia, she's in the life-ruining business, so naturally
she's hungry for any dirt -- real or not -- that she can throw.

Trying to
hurt a man that never did anything to you? Well, clearly this Francios creep has
an agenda, even if it's just to make himself famous or get some money from some
national talk show (that's my bet) but the rest of you should be ashamed of
yourselves for helping him.

Except Miss Jia, who I think is in on the scam.
Jay Original   |69.108.99.xxx |2010-01-19 06:58:08
Dear Bill G,

I am a bit tired of every time a perceived hetero black man has
issues there is some conspiracy - white men, white women, black women, now we're
adding gay black men to the list?

If there is any Black Gay Agenda it's
silence, invisibility, and shame. Where is the website where Black Gay men are
being paid like Tiger's hoes to spill the beans? There isn't one. I know
singers, professional athletes, politicians, comedians, rappers, and actors who
have been sleeping with men for YEARS and not a word...

And again, I stated in
my first comment that I am against outing people. I wish Ovie the best. If he
isn't gay, his future wife will not care. If he is gay, his future wife will not
care. If he decides to come out, there are a grip of quality guys out there
besides gossipy hairdressers. Perhaps another dude with paper or a strong
career?

You can't say Outsports has an agenda because they didn't out him.
...
TJ   |167.206.233.xxx |2010-01-19 13:01:33
Conspiracies aside, if the man isn't gay he wants all to know that he isn't gay.
Major sports figures and men, be they of any ethnicity, race or creed do not
want to be called a homosexual or gay. If we want others to respect gay men and
women, I think we owe them a little respect also.
Jay Original   |69.108.99.xxx |2010-01-20 07:47:33
TJ, a real man doesn't care what other people have to say about him. Also nobody
is taking Ovie's rights away based on a rumor. I pay taxes and can't freaking
serve my country in the military, get married, or have my partner get social
security benefits. How about respecting that? I was going to say that your idea
of disrespecting a man by comparing him to women or gays is rooted in sexism
which is the cause of homophobia but I'm too tired to deal.
TJ   |24.47.157.xxx |2010-01-20 14:34:38
I believe that deep down inside we all care about some of the things people say
about us, especially if it isn't true. Rumors can destroy careers and people! I
don't recall making mention of a comparison between any groups of people. I am
saying that respect goes both ways...
Jay Original   |69.108.99.xxx |2010-01-20 20:09:39
TJ your entire argument is based on the idea that gay = bad/a slur/something to
run from/a sin. That is where the comparison comes from. Gay rumors..yikes!
Meanwhile some kid just got the stew kicked out of him after leaving a gay club.
Ovie doesn't have to work another day in his life if he doesn't want to. I
forgot to add to my wife list before that he can also marry a lesbian. He is no
freaking martyr. George Lopez Mercado is.
TJ   |167.206.233.xxx |2010-01-21 14:27:25
Jay, valid point...and yes, what happened to George Lopez Mercado was horrible.
Again, it goes back to respect!
Woody   |174.101.241.xxx |2010-01-19 07:51:20
Very well written Cyd. Good job.

I think Bill G. is a straight publicist
plant trying in vain to quelch the story. He commented on your jocktalkblog
article: outsports.com/jocktalkblog/2010/01/11/another-when
-will-nfl-get-gay-player-column/ and directed people to read a homophobic blog
to support his view. He never addressed or commented on the evidence provided on
Miss Jia of a connection to Ovie by F. Sloan.

Regardless of whether this
story is found to be false or whether Ovie was a bisexual golddigger on the down
low before he hit it rich... this story is newsworthy in my opinion.
Anonymous   |173.54.179.xxx |2010-01-21 04:37:19
JayOriginal--Of course Outsprots has an agenda. You aren't reporting on the
news, your propagandizing your sexuality. And TJ's comment is spot on -- if gays
want respect, they have to give respect.

You write, "a real man doesn't
care what other people have to say about him." So how's about giving me your
real name and I'll paste it all over the internet saying that you had sex with
your mother, or youur daughter? Absurb, right> Because people DO care abolut
their reputations--not just how their future wife will feel but how they are
perceived in business. Gays are so proud of being gay, but straight guys can't
be proud of being straight?

You write, "Nobody is taking Ovie's rights
away based on a rumor. I pay taxes and can't freaking serve my country in the
military, get married, or have my partner get social
security benefits."
And the gay community is fighting a winning battle to reverse that. But that's...
Jay Original   |69.108.99.xxx |2010-01-21 14:16:24
"Anonymous", as a MILLIONAIRE Ovie could open a chain of KFC in ATL and
his great great grandkids won't have to work. And the 1st time he is with a
chick in public people will forget all about this. Do we talk about Eddie Murphy
and the trannie prostitute or Eddie and his 7 kids by hot wife and Spice
Girl???? If you think that LGBT are "winning battles" please tell me
when my taxes will allow my pursuit of happiness.
YellaDawg   |76.105.106.xxx |2010-01-28 15:39:31
Jay:

Your point is moot. If it is lie that could be damaging to him
financially or socially, then he has every legal right to protest and to file
defamation suit against the slanderer/liar. Particularly if the lie was spread
with malicious intent. It matters not what people SHOULD think if the lie were
true. What matters is if it is a lie that does damage, and was spread
maliciously and knowingly.
Julien   |67.177.116.xxx |2010-01-21 14:29:57
"You aren't reporting on the
news, your propagandizing your
sexuality"

I think you're using words you don't quite understand here.
Outsports isn't "propagandizing gay sexuality", it's posting on sports
issues from a gay perspective, making this a clearly important story given the
kind of play it has gotten on other websites.

"Gays are so proud of being
gay, but straight guys can't be proud of being straight?"

Gay pride isn't
disconnected pride in being gay, it's a response to constant, incessant
belittling and discrimination. The day straight people have to deal with that
kind of onslaught, then straight pride will be like gay pride. Your attempt to
equate the two shows you have no understanding of what gay pride is, much less
of basic, sociological concepts.
TJ   |24.47.157.xxx |2010-01-21 16:53:33
Julien,

How can straight guy, if the poster is straight and a guy, begin to
understand what it is like to be a man who happens to be gay? I give him a
minimal amount of credit for coming to the site and reading the comments. It
allows for dialogue that may not happen outside of these confines.
Anon   |68.33.95.xxx |2010-02-13 10:53:00
Coincidence that this guy is pictured at the Playboy party at the Super Bowl
this year? He must be straight!! ;-)
JP Mercury   |68.146.219.xxx |2010-02-18 20:45:32
To me the story here isn't about what the two guys did or didn't do
together.

What's amazing to me, and a story, is that a pro football player
would feel so threatened by the blog comments of someone on the internet that
they would get their attorney to threaten legal action.

It just shows how much
status players stand to loose if outed. To me that's sad.

If a football player
is a real man, comments like these would not phase him.
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