The picture showed Haugsted with his first boyfriend. It was posted on social media the summer after Haugsted’s freshman year.
A few days after it went online, Illinois-Chicago gymnastics coach Charley Nelson approached Haugsted at practice about the photo.
“He mentioned it — Who is that boy? — trying to tease me in a fun way,” Haugsted said. “In that moment, I kind of realized that I was going to be OK, and I didn’t have to worry about anything being there. I knew that he had my back. That he was there to support me.”
Haugsted instantly appreciated Nelson’s acceptance with that simple question and recognized he’d be treated the same as straight teammates.
“In that period of my life, I was still trying to be comfortable with being an out gay man, which is always hard,” Haugsted said. “Knowing someone … is just going to accept you is great.”
Haugsted gained confidence the following two years, and as a junior in 2018, he was named co-captain of the Illinois-Chicago Flames men’s gymnastics team.
On Friday, at the end of the first week of his senior year, Haugsted learned he may be one of the last gymnasts to experience that growth at Illinois-Chicago.
The university announced Friday that it plans to eliminate the men’s and women’s gymnastics programs after the 2019 season, which runs from January to April.
In a statement to the Chicago Tribune, Illinois-Chicago athletic director Garrett Klassy said: “This is the most difficult decision I have had to make in my career as an athletic administrator. I know that it impacts many people who have invested much of their lives into UIC gymnastics and our entire athletic department. However, this was a move toward progress that needed to be taken.”
Nelson and the women’s coaches were informed on Friday about a half hour before the athletes learned the program’s fate, according to the Arlington Heights Daily Herald.
“It was a punch to the gut, and out of the blue,” Nelson said to the Daily Herald.
Haugsted said he has been angry, sad, mad and just confused since Friday.
“It just makes me upset that they would do that to such a good program at our school,” Haugsted said.
Illinois-Chicago men’s gymnastics, which celebrated its 70th season in 2018, owns the university’s only NCAA team titles, capturing Division II titles in 1978 and 1979. And in April, Illinois-Chicago hosted the 2018 NCAA Men’s Gymnastics Championships.
Haugsted was one of 25 athletes on the 2018 Illinois-Chicago men’s gymnastics roster, and none of those athletes are on scholarship.
“We are all here based off of passion,” Haugsted said.
There are 16 members of the women’s team, and some have partial scholarships, according to the Daily Herald.
Haugsted, who is 5-3 and 130 pounds, missed the final two months of the 2018 with a finger injury, and he said his mounting injuries contributed to him currently feeling it’s unlikely he’ll compete in 2019. But, he still will fight to save the program that means so much to him.
He wants future Flames to experience the thrill he felt placing fifth on parallel bars at the 2017 ECAC conference meet.
He wants future Flames to feel the support he and other LGBTQ athletes that he knows of felt competing for Illinois-Chicago gymnastics.
He wants future Flames to just have gymnastics.
“I’m so grateful for the experiences I’ve had on the team that allowed me to open up and feel free,” Haugsted said. “If you can find a program that will really improve you as a person, not just based on your gymnastic skills, it’s important.”
Steen Haugsted is a senior at University of Illinois-Chicago majoring in graphic design. He can be reached by email at email@example.com or on Instagram @steen.jpg
Names in bold are people that have announced publicly they identify as LGBTQ. Results are for competitions that took place Aug. 20-Sept. 3.
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