Orlando Pride defender Toni Pressley has a message for women: it can happen to you, too.
Despite experiencing soreness in one of her breasts for months, Pressley didn’t get screened for breast cancer. She was a professional athlete, after all. She didn’t feel particularly at risk.
Then the Pride’s nutritionist, Rikki Keen, decided to address the team. She was diagnosed with an early form of breast cancer in 2018, and wanted to share her story. It prompted Pressley to finally get checked out.
Last summer, Pressley was diagnosed with breast cancer. It was a wakeup call. She wants to ensure other women don’t put themselves in the same predicament.
“I think it is important for me for people to know that nobody is immune to everything, and it can happen to anyone,” Pressley said. “It can happen to athletes, young people, healthy people. That’s the message I want to get across.”
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As you may or may not know by now, a month ago I was diagnosed with breast cancer. • • Receiving this news turned my world upside down. • • Going to training and preparing for games was sometimes a struggle, keeping this secret, while trying to navigate my next steps. • • My teammates, coaches, friends, and family were so important during this time. Even though they had no idea why. • • I feel incredibly fortunate to have been proactive. • • I also feel lucky to have the full support of my team, club, family and friends. • • Thank you to my amazing team of doctors at Orlando Health for helping me every step of the way. • • Now, post surgery, I’m focused on my recovery. Both physically and mentally. • • Thank you to everyone for your well wishes! • • I will be back soon
In celebration of Breast Cancer Awareness Month this October, Pressley is partnering with the women’s brand Chestee to create her own sports bra. Twenty percent of proceeds will be donated to Libby’s Legacy, a non-profit that provides breast cancer services to underserved women in Central Florida.
While Pressley waits to get back on the field, she’s used her platform to spread awareness. It’s more important than ever to promote vigilance, given how thousands of women have put off getting mammograms amidst the Covid-19 pandemic.
Studies show the postponements will likely increase the number of cancer deaths.
“I always wanted to be honest about what was happening, what I was going through, especially also knowing that it can help someone else, or many others as well,” she said. “From a health perspective, recognize your body, because nobody knows it better than you do, and trust your gut and intuition, and go to the doctor early and often.”
As LGBTQ people in sports, we know the power of visibility. Pressley, who’s dating her Pride teammate, the Brazilian soccer great Marta Vieira da Silva, says the same advice about trusting yourself applies to living an out and open life.
“It’s about expressing to yourself, and to other people, that you have community and support behind you, and to live and lean into your fullest truth,” Pressley said. “I think for us as humans, that’s so huge: to find ourselves, love ourselves and be comfortable and to know there’s a community out there for everyone. There’s love out there for everyone.”